Please read and remember this.

@saphrina (31551)
South Africa
August 23, 2010 11:01am CST
Sweeties, i hope this is the last time we will have to go through this AGAIN. Here we all have the right to our own opinions and what we like or not, but try to remember those manners you were taught. I mean really. For the one millionth time, if you do not agree or like a topic, DON'T RESPOND, okay. To start telling what you think and why you think that in a rude way, really get on my nerves. Now just move on and go find some other topics that you like. THANX. Please try to remember this. I am really getting too old for this. TATA.
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
23 Aug 10
Hey hang on a minute please and explain this better to me. You are saying that if I don't like a topic that I should move on - and that is what I always do because there is no fun in posting just for the sake of it. However I can't agree that if I don't agree then I should not stop off and disagree I can do it nicely I promise but just moving on is sort of burying my head in the sand isn't it?
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
23 Aug 10
I confused you - or were you already confused without me lending a hand? The fun has subsided of late. I see several are missing and it could be due to the holidays. I have offline stuff which is engrossing my thoughts and I come here daily hoping to find that fun but it does seem to have disappeared. Maybe it's vacation time for some and thdn it will be back again
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@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
23 Aug 10
I did hang on my MD, but the freaking branch broke. People don't really have fun anymore. I wonder what the problem is? I actually miss the old days when we really had some good fun here. With all that agree and disagree of yours, you just confused me again. Thanx. TATA.
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@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
23 Aug 10
I think i was confused. I just took a guy on on yahoo about ten min, ago. Damn freaking rude and nasty. I play there these days as my friends here are missing. There i can loose my temper without getting into trouble. How awesome is that?
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@Aaleexix (2290)
• India
23 Aug 10
Disagreement should be expressed with reasonable response. Not need to be agree with everyone. We have different opinion so we are in discussion. But indecent manner is condemnable. People who goes rude have actually short of words and point. It is not necessary to be agree with any topics. Any body can oppose to anyone's opinion, but in a decent way. Indecent behaviors is against the environment of discussion.
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@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
23 Aug 10
I really enjoy reading your responses Aaleexix! You have such a way of saying things and I always find that you have said what I was going to say, only much much better! I love how you expressyourself and I have to agree that there is no need to agree, if we are pleasant in the manner in which we disagree.
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@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
23 Aug 10
I call it rude, sweetie. Either someone disagree in a very polite way or they should hop to another topic. I know everyone has there own opinion, but it doesn't mean you should forget your manners. TATA. MD, how do i disagree in a pleasant manner?
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@Aaleexix (2290)
• India
24 Aug 10
@ saphrina I am agreed with you in this matter. So I am in the discussion. From my believe no where I am indecent here nor rude any way. Please don't think me wrong but my question is what is discussion? Discussion is various ( different) opinion on any topic. Please try to put notice towards word different opinion. As we have different opinion so disagreement is obviously come in any discussion. We have different opinion , so we are in discussion. We need not to have similar thinking. Through discussion we can exchange our thought and know what other people think on the matter. So disagreement is not against the environment of discussion. But the question of rudeness come when we cross the limits of word and emotion. Indecent word expressing anger to intended by personal attract to hard someone is rude manner. So we can't similarity disagreement with rude manner. I am here disagree with your thought. But nowhere I express anger. Just try to establish my point with reasoning. Will you say me rude here? I am firm in my opinion. Cool and calm in my expression just opposing your opinion. If this is considered as rude manner then how can continue discussion. Discussions are more interesting when people different thought come together and try to establish their point with proper reasoning. Finally I am agreed with your last point that everyone has their own opinion, and should have.... it is good for discussion. But we should not loose our temper and manner when we are expressing our opinion.... it is very bad in any conversation.
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• India
23 Aug 10
oh my sweet saphrina. YOU have given words to my feelings. Thanks you are an angel. quoting you... DON'T RESPOND, if you do not agree or like a topic .... and, if you really want to disagree, you can be polite in presenting the views. ... thanks a million. I WILL be always indebted to you for the polite words.
• India
23 Aug 10
please be your own sweet self always. mylot or your lot. or their lot. whatever.
@vandana7 (100302)
• India
23 Aug 10
CT - here is my intellectual response to your "DON'T RESPOND... ". Many of my discussions are started with a view to get others opinions and inputs. They help me change my stand or opinion, or modify it to an extent. Therefore, a person who disagrees is most welcome - with his or her bagful of reasons of course. However, I agree with dumb blond that language - makes the difference!
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
23 Aug 10
Seems i need to start collecting then. Don't you think, my sweet? TATA.
@vijayanths (7877)
• India
23 Aug 10
hi, sweetie, I think you have a made a point here. If some one does not like a topic he/she can avoid responding to that discussion. Certain things-every one is aware of yet you need to just remind it.I am sure Mylotters will take it in a positive way, still I wish you never get old so soon.
• India
23 Aug 10
oh. I see that our sweet saphrina has many admirers and her fan-club is really big here in mylot. Thanks vijayanths, I join in seconding you .. in wishing that OUR sweet saphrina will never get old
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
23 Aug 10
I hope i have made my point sweetie. Wonder if they actually do remember there freaking manners. As for the old. We all grow old, nothing can change that. TATA. You are busy tonight, my sweet.
• India
23 Aug 10
@Ct, I am a big fan of sweetie, TATA. It's true her fan club is very big. I am one of the proud members.
@voldrox (7191)
• India
24 Aug 10
Hi Saphrina! Honestly, i never thought much about it Saph. Even if someone disagrees, there is a proper way to do that. I just respond to you to show you my face, whether ugly or handsome. Friends will always respond.
@vandana7 (100302)
• India
24 Aug 10
Voldi has one manner too many Saphy!!! Wish he would at least be honest with you!!!
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@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
24 Aug 10
He is always honest Vannie.
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@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
24 Aug 10
You will always be my handsome, Voldi. At least you have manners. TATA.
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• India
24 Aug 10
Hello Are you still angry dear? Why don't you just tell me who did this to you? I am gonna hammer his right ear, or staple his fingers or do something more horrible. But please don't be so angry. Thanks. God bless you
@vandana7 (100302)
• India
24 Aug 10
Saphy needs Biswa as bodyguard, and biswa's ma to save her from looking real dumb!!! Am I right Saphy dear?
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
24 Aug 10
Hi sweetie. Don't worry, i think i nailed a lot last night. sagar, biswa is my new body guard. He won't tolerate anyone giving me grief.
@sagar21 (1579)
• India
24 Aug 10
seems getbiswa is the new jigsaw..
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
24 Aug 10
I agree with you wholeheartedly Saphrina! There is no compulsion for anyone to participate if the person does not like the discussion.Everyone has a right to start a discussion ; I have seen many discussions that are not to my taste but I just do not respond to them.If there is something I disagree with then I just say so in polite terms.There is no compulsion that the person should agree with whatever I feel.It is a free world but good manners is a must, irresepctive of what the person is, however old or young a person is. Thankfully I have not had the misfortune to see many rude responses to my discussions.
@kalav56 (11464)
• India
24 Aug 10
Definitely SAPHRINA! We ought not to hit but if someone raises a hand unnecessarily, we cannot let them scotfree..Go ahead with your good work.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
24 Aug 10
Thank you, sweetie. So this means i can teach them some manners then? TATA.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
24 Aug 10
Thank you very much. Now i can get the whips out. How awesome.
@maylaine (441)
• Philippines
24 Aug 10
hey saph does anyone pissed you off again?common cheer up my friend it will makes you older.....
@maylaine (441)
• Philippines
24 Aug 10
im just curios how old are you?
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
24 Aug 10
I am old already, sweetie. I am just waiting for the gray hair, you know. Thanx. TATA.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
24 Aug 10
I'm 36 sweetie.
• United States
24 Aug 10
I agree that disagreement should be done in a respectful manner. However, there have been a couple times on here recently that I have been accused of being rude. I do not think that I was rude, but I suppose that is all a matter of perspective. On the other hand, when you are using the exact words of the person you are commenting to in your response and they then accuse you of being rude does that not mean that they were rude as well?
• United States
24 Aug 10
Basically, if I take your words and use them in my response to you, and then you accuse me of being rude for using these words, then weren't you the one that was originally rude for using those words in the first place? If they are rude when I use them, then weren't they rude when you used them as well? Of course, I am not talking about you personally, Saphy, I am just using you as an example here.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
24 Aug 10
PA, i think you just confused me with that respectful manner, accused of being rude, matter of perspective, exact words and the commenting. I know it must make sense, but sorry, not to me, though. Thanx. TATA.
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@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
24 Aug 10
Now you are going to wonder why the angel won this round, AAGGAAIINN!!
@vandana7 (100302)
• India
23 Aug 10
Last time!!! Who told you I am dying that fast? Anyway - I agree not to agree to whatever you agree or not agree! And I will respond. If you cant take that, complain to myLot admin!!! By the way, my discussions are on net - in another website!!! I hope admin is aware of it!!! It is so flattering. Right now I am 4 dimensional human being!!!
@vandana7 (100302)
• India
23 Aug 10
Actually CT told me. I cant!!! I know you are dumb blond!!! If I agree to what you say, everybody will think I am crazy!!!
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
23 Aug 10
I am not going to answer this.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
23 Aug 10
How the hell is that possible??? Where did you see it? You better freaking agree. TATA.
@allknowing (136541)
• India
24 Aug 10
Every single user here I am sure has had to face rudeness and that includes me. Honestly saphrina I just walk away even though I know I have not done anything wrong. I do try to explain and if the user refuses to understand then it is the user's problem and not mine. This is an ocean with plenty of fish. I don't even size them up but just move on.
@allknowing (136541)
• India
24 Aug 10
Probably they take out their real life frustration here and look around for punching bags if they can find any. I am not going to volunteer and raise my adrenalin. The best choice would be to not precipitate specially when you know you are on the right and it is then that you come to know that they want to use you. Don't give them that opportunity.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
24 Aug 10
I know sweetie, but it is so hard some times not to loose the old temper and just go for it. I think i should try and behave at least once in a while. But that sounds ssoo boring, don't you think?
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
24 Aug 10
I just wonder why they are so freaking rude, sweetie. To try that on me is the biggest mistake ever. I am more than rude and won't take it. Thanx. TATA.
• United States
24 Aug 10
saphrina I do not know you as many appear they do. I recall a discussion or two but not enough of them to say that I know you at all. But I agree when you say people should not be rude as I read a lot of discussions that head in that direction. I am one that completely ignores any controversial discussions as please I have enough worries in my personal life to waste any energy on any site. Although I was not molded by parents to instill manners in me, as I never had a set of my own, but I sure am old enough to know when respect should be given. So when I do not respond and or entertained controversial discussions I feel this is upholding respect. So as one who does not respond to anything that perhaps I may not like or find too controversial, this discussion I completely agree. I see you posted your discussion ten hours ago I hope by now you are feeling better about this whole thing.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
24 Aug 10
It's in the mail sweetie. Just dust it off a bit, okay. I had it in a cupboard for at least a year. Thanx.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
24 Aug 10
I am feeling better thanx, sweetie. Should i sen a set of my manners. I have a spare set somewhere, i just have to go look for it. Thanx. TATA.
• United States
24 Aug 10
Oh yeah I always have room for a replenished set, so cheers and send them over. Glad to hear you are feeling better also.
• Singapore
24 Aug 10
Saph.... What happened to the angel I know? Aren't these people like flies buzzing around? Irritating but they always come back.... Let me offer you a solution...use some sticky tape to stick them, then flick them off to where they belong.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
24 Aug 10
She is still here somewhere, sweetie. I like that sticky tape idea of yours. Thanx. TATA.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
24 Aug 10
I'll see what i can do, sweetie.
• Singapore
24 Aug 10
Can you send a message, we want her back in rainbowland, we desperately need her.
@hemsagar (286)
• India
24 Aug 10
sorry for you hope we dont have to experience this people will learn as it goes hope u wont experience it again
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
24 Aug 10
Thanx sweetie, but these lot i can handle. TATA.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
24 Aug 10
Yeah, we can hope that i don't fry you very soon.
@sagar21 (1579)
• India
24 Aug 10
yeah...we can hope...but...
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
25 Aug 10
Old? hahahahaha
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
26 Aug 10
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• Pamplona, Spain
1 Jan 11
Hiya saphie, Most times I pass those kind of things by. I will read them a bit to learn about it and nothing more than that. I don´t ever feel it´s worth getting into responses that are negative for both parties. If someone writes me something that is a bit nasty it will go unanswered so they lose out too. Ta ta is something we say to each other where I come from or Ta ra. Bit of a coincidence that.
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
2 Jan 11
Hi sweetie. I might read them, but then not the whole one. If i cannot answer to it i will leave it. Their problem, though. Now i am curious. What exactly does tata mean then? Thanx. TATA.
@mrfdg1972 (3237)
• Philippines
24 Aug 10
HI Sphrina.//-\\
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
24 Aug 10
Hello sweetie.
@sagar21 (1579)
• India
24 Aug 10
Hi saph seems you are not in a good mood.. I do respond all discussions if I'm in a good mood... not that I'll type some blunders..but it will make some sense.. and I do argue if I don't agree..that means I'm not into fight..but I want express my point too.. but some do not even care for the manners.. Do you think I'm one?? thanks for sharing.. have a great day/night...
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
24 Aug 10
Sweetie, you are always polite. Whether in a good or bad mood we should always remember our manners when responding. Thanx. TATA.
@Memnon (2170)
27 Aug 10
I have no objection to someone politely disagreeing with me. But there is no need to be rude;I encounter this a lot on some other sites. If people cannot be civil then they need not bother. As to whoever has upset you; it's their loss!
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
27 Aug 10
Rudeness i cannot take, sweetie. I can be very rude as well. They can always come and give me a go if they have the guts for it. Thanx. TATA.
• China
24 Aug 10
i find it hard to agree with you by saying that"if you do not agree or like a tipic, DON'T RESPOND". since people are from different background and cultures, our ways of thinking are different, too. consider it like this, blue is different from red, so is green from yellow. but all these colors make up for this colorful world. what's more, sometimes, you can learn more and develop critical thinking. so it might be interesting to know how different people respond to the same matter. by the way, you are not old at all! just be happy!
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
24 Aug 10
Sweetie, if you do not agree, respond politely with some manners. If you respond rudely and forget your manners i will really blow up or something. Thanx. TATA.