How can a friend believe her friend's boyfriend?
By iamagayshark
@iamagayshark (15)
August 25, 2010 1:20am CST
Recently me and a good friend, told our friend that her "boyfriend" was being a very good one, cause my good friend told me that she recently knew that during her blockmate's debut, where our friend's "boyfriend" was, kissed two other girls(plus one but not from the debut) My good friend's block mate told her this because it ticked him off because apparently this guy liked one of two girls which our friend's "boyfriend" kissed.
also, when in class, He would often tell the guys that he's fed up with our friend, and then brags about her after a few minutes.
Now Our friend talked to me, she told me she and her boyfriend talked, her boyfriend gave his account on the situation:
1. He didn't kiss the two girls but made them kiss each other, because the two girls were always together.
2. He admitted he kissed another girl.
3. He never said he was fed up with our friend but he did brag about her.
I can't actually judge, but I want opinions your on this... :)
It would be of great help.
4 responses
@Norasziah (9)
• Singapore
25 Aug 10
Hmmm. This relationship seemed to be like a puppy love. Nevertheless, the guy is not meant for your friend. Do not waste your time on him. Its not worth it. Why let the heart be hurt with this immatured guy. I am sure that there are some sincere and honest guy out there who is waiting to be discovered. Just be patienec and God will show the answer :)
@iamagayshark (15)
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26 Aug 10
Honestly, their relationship was just a joke in the beginning, i don't quite understand how my friend fell inlove with this guy, but of course as a friend I respected her, if she was happy so was I... but then knowing this takes the cake, I did tell her to be patient for a guy well suited for her, but *sigh* oh well, now they're going through the "psuedo"-ness again :)
@hari1111 (238)
• New Zealand
25 Aug 10
OMG NEE! Welcome to mylot! First post~
Well i think it is hard to be faced in such a situation. Especially if you dont know the guy very well. Here in new zealand there are some who are like that. I guess its just trying to find out if he has a reputation as a "playah"
But yea he must be cheating XD
@iamagayshark (15)
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25 Aug 10
Well, from the start the relationship was somewhat a joke, and then me and my good friend (surprisingly you know her. :]) let our friend go on with the pseudo relationship, she seemed happy... and then with this came up, it kinda ticked me off.
@mlhervas (482)
• Philippines
31 Aug 10
It's just a simple kiss isn't it? You said that he didn't kissed the two girls. I'm bit confused now which is true.
Well, as long as there is nothing seriously wrong about the situation then let it go.
Is he chasing on other girls or making a move on them? If not then leave him be.
Your friend should be the judge of their relationship. As a friend, you are there to listen to her problems and give her support too.
