Is Love a good or bad thing?

August 25, 2010 10:27am CST
I'm just wondering if love is a good or bad thing? They always say love is blind and we all use love as an excuse for most things, "I'm sorry I did that but I did it because I love you". It seems to me like love can sometimes be sinister as well as beautiful maybe it's like a double edged sword?
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@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
27 Aug 10
I think Love is good if it doesn't make you do bad things.., if you do not lie because of love and you love that person with utmost sincerity.., But.., if you love and it makes you do bad things.., then you will have to think twice..=)
@GemmaR (8517)
26 Aug 10
I think it's a good thing if the person you love is in love with you too. If they aren't, then love can be very hurtful. I was in love with someone who wasn't in love with me for three years, and they were the worst three years of my life. I mean that. We were very good friends, but I always wanted the frienship to go one step further, whereas he was never interested in that. I am in love with a man now who loves me back, and it is amazing to know that there will always be someone there for me when I need them to be there.
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
26 Aug 10
Welcome to mylot Lady_nemesis, nothing is good or bad, out thinking make it so, so says the great Shakespeare.
@meemingNEW (2226)
• Philippines
26 Aug 10
Love has its pros and cons. has its advantages and disadvantages. But you won't know it unless you try, right? When you love, you feel happy but eventually you'll get hurt in the process. When you love, it has its hottest point but eventually will have a cold end. Love is really complicated but I honestly think that what makes love interesting is that it is a mixture of something good and bad. I still love to love no matter how I get hurt or how much pain it feels. Best of luck
• Portugal
26 Aug 10
yes you are right. love can be good or can be bad. i loved a guy that he was married and i didnt know it. he spent his day almost all day talking and saying how he loves me and then i found out he had a wife :( he keeps denying it but i know is the truth and yes love is blind. many people warned me and i didnt want to see and then i got hurt. but i can say i cant live without love.
@aldawn22 (224)
• Philippines
26 Aug 10
Love is not blind, it sees but it doesn't mind. Most people when they are in love they tend to forget to use there brains. It's the heart that they are using when they are in love. Love is good for me, I think it will became bad if you will not use it properly, on the other hand if you will use it as an inspiration then it will make you a productive individual but if you treat it in a bad way then bad things will happen as well.
@SHAMRACK (8576)
• India
25 Aug 10
Dear friend, I consider love is always good, that too only if that love is sincere and comes from heart. Hope if everyone love in good sense there would be world here as heaven.
@akn1961 (1034)
• India
26 Aug 10
love is great ,too much love is problem ,one thing we should understand that if somebody has come ,has to go ,that will be painful .
• Philippines
26 Aug 10
Love is always good because it is what God always gives us and only God can give love in the perfect way. Love is not a bad thing, it is the people who demonstrate love in a wrong way which is bad. Love is just a feeling, we the humans are the doer.
@fherfher (259)
• Philippines
26 Aug 10
You love a person with no reason. You just feel it. Even that person is not perfect, or the baddest in the world. Love is also the reason to make the person to change and be good. Love is so powerful to make things right and change life. I believe that LOVE is a gift of God. So it will never be bad.