Did you quite anything for your lover?

I haven't quit anything for them, and I don't think I would either. I am of the strong belief that you should not change for anyone, and if they expect you to change, then they aren't worth the effort of the relationship. I know friends of mine in the past who have literally tried to change everything about themselves in order to please a guy, and I know that it never works in the long term, because people shouldn't have to change themselves.

i quit sleeping and caring for myself. it was very bad bcs i just saw him i wanted always to talk with him and feel near to him bcs we lived far and ended up being me the hurt one. i put him first and he was careless. i broke up with him later bcs my love for him wasnt the same anymore bcs he was always and always not changing. he just acted always not caring much so love ended and i wanted break up. we can give up some bad habits for that person but we cant forget ourselves.

Just like you, I also stopped my drinking habits because of my lover. I didn't do it for him alone but most importantly for myself. I was a binge drinker before, I used to smoke all day and party hard all night long. But that was then, I just came to a point that made me realize that I should change before it gets too late. I should change to save my relationship and my boyfriend's respect. I honestly think that if you want to quit anything for your lover, you should do it more for yourself . That's just about it. Best of luck

Probably the thing that I quit for the sake of the person that I love is my bad personality like being selfish. Sometimes I want things that is not good for him, I am asking things that would hurt him but it will make me happy. I think sacrificing for the person that you love is the least thing that you will do to make that person happy and to have an harmonious relationship.

in frienship and relationship ,one should not force his/her view ,accept as it is ,that is individual identity ,we should respect each other ,if any problem we should very politely ,lif goes on like that.thx for raising this topic.