What do you feel if your xBF is still messaging you on FB?

i my x will gonna have any means of communicating with me, i will go crazy and think why is he bothering me now...but in your case, ask frankly what he is up to..or maybe he still loves you..talk with him and have a closure..

If you didn't ended your relationship formally.., then there is a chance your boyfriend wants to get back with you and mend the broken past.., or make it up to you.. he still feels something for you.., just be careful not to be a victim of the same crime again.., I mean.., if he fooled you once.., that is his fault but if fooled you twice.., then the blame is on you..=)

If he is single, he's probably just bored. I know guys in my past have told me that they were missing me, but then as soon as they found another girl they were fine again. Just think about the reasons you split up in the first place, and hopefully that will give you enough reason not to bother speaking to him again. If an ex tries to contact you, just block them, as there must have been a reason to break up with him.

don't take him too seriously. unless he's making some real efforts to win you back... sending messages through FB is not real effort for me... What do y0u think?

you can remove his post...whatever he is up to, i guess he just to want to end it just like that.

maybe he prefers to use facebook bcs he wants everyone knows he misses you i dont know ahah anyway do you still love him? also did you answer his message? or you just read and didnt answer? maybe you should answer and say something that way he stops or continue messaging and maybe things work between you guys^^ i guess he wants you back thats why he messaged you^^

Nothing. should i be flattered? nopes, i won't be... should i feel bothered, no, not as well. I think it is just okay for him to have a chat with me.. if it is only a friendly chat then i would not mind at all... if he is, well in a stalker mode, i guess that is really not appropriate and you should probably have to ignore him.

Do you miss him too? If you do, tell him that what you feel as well. I don't think there's anything wrong with it. But if you're already in a new relationship, if I were in your shoes, I'd rather ignore him so that he won't screw up the present relationship that I have now. But you said that you ended your relationship unclosed, if you have already moved on after breaking up with him, i think it is rather fitting that you would have a closure on the relationship so that both of you will finally move on.

I haven't really had an problem with any ex's, but I think if you don't mind him messaging you, then go ahead and talk to him. If you really dislike it, remove him as a friend. If you're not friends with him and he's just messaging you over facebook, all you have to do is go to his page and block him, he won't be able to find your account anymore! Have a great day.

I don't have problem with my x-bf, we are not friends in FB. If its ok with you then let him be. My friend told me that he's ex is messaging her on facebook too and that guy messed up on the relationship. I told her to ignore it, and she did cause she is happy now with her husband.

Yeah that is one to think about because if someone misses you that much wouldn't they call you and try to see you. hmmm makes me suspicious.

I am not sure too, it's very hard to judge on what he really wants base on his actions. If he truly missed you then a phone call is very accessible for someone who misses somebody. If he wants to continue the broken relationship then he can ask you for that but since he just said that he only miss you then there's a lot of meaning for that. For now try to assess first his feelings and if there is still a chance it's better to have the relationship back but if it's really over then tell him frankly.

got same situation before lolz i guess just chill and relax and see what he realy into. if he make some good move or serios move for u to believe he miss u then go for it .. follow ur heart