What will you do if you love a man so much but he's not that into you?
By dragonangel
@dragonangel (551)
August 26, 2010 10:49am CST
You have given everything to him.Your world revolves only for him but you feel that whatever you do, it's always you running after him.You feel that it's just a one way love affair. When you notice that it's like this situation.Will you continue wooing him , or just find someone who might reciprocate your feelings?
3 responses
@yeyelee (370)
• China
27 Aug 10
First you should figure out whether you love him or not.And then make clear that if there are still some advantages he has never discovered on you.If so,you have the opportunities of wooing.If not and you really are not his tea,give up i suggest.It will only lead in pain,hurt and frustration if you continue running after him.Hope you can find your true love.Good luck.
@dragonangel (551)
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27 Aug 10
Thank you yeyelee.I already found my true love after my perseverance for him for almost three long years.I was only an option when the relationship started though i felt strongly that he's already the one.So I continued on showing how serious I am and then after almost three years I got tired of it and so I'm in the verge of giving up all my hope and the love when he finally realized that it's me all along.So to cut the long story short he was able to save the relationship and keep the love and has shown it to me in many ways that I hoped to see before and which he showered more now.
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
1 Sep 10
It's really hard when you feel in love with someone who doesn't love you back. It's bad enough when you are loving them and doing everything just to please them yet they don't acknowledge what you done for them. It's when you are trying your best to get valued at for your feelings and affections yet they remain cold at all times.
It is a case of loving a wrong person. It happen so many times that I think people were just plain foolish to fall in love with somebody who is cold hearted. The best thing to do is let go of the feelings and getaway from that person so that you wont see them everyday. It will make things much easier.
@xtmlove (402)
• China
27 Aug 10
I msut say I have a similar problem with this topic.I love a girl very much,she was my first girlfriend,my only girlfriend as far as now.Because of some reasons,she left me.Now we are also good friend,but I love her so much,I missed her badly since she was gone.she have a new boyfriend now,though they are up and down in the life.I wanted some day she will come back to me,I always made all of my effort,but she also doesn't want to come back.I choice to give up,because I had cost too much time on it.What's more,my study and life also had suffered badly from this influence.So,I think you should make a choice as soon as possible,whether she or he worth you to love or not?If not,you should give up immediately,time will change everything!
