last night a guy got drunk because of me

I think you just did the right thing. It is what you are feeling. He has to accept it no matter what. He'll get over it. Don't worry much. And besides he has to respect your decisions.

You shouldnt worry about it telling him the truth was right you probably had to do it sometime anyway and its better to do it right away then to get bothered waiting for the "right" moment

Of course you did the right thing, especially in light of his behaviour. Can you think what would happen if you were actually in a relationship with this guy and he came home drunk one night? I'd say you shouldn't worry too much about it, you really had a lucky escape.

Hi,enyniya!I'm thinking that you've made the right decision,because I once had encountered the same situation like your friend and the girl coped with the similar problem like you,and the result turned out to be good for both.At that time I was just attracted by only a characteristic of that girl,because i was so introvert and she was vivacious.I believe i just admired her a lot,but i regarded it as love.Maybe the situation is not similar,but what i wanna say is that you have make your sole choice so do't regret.Just see what's going on.Good luck for you and your freiend.

Of course you did the right thing. I have a lot of experience with drunk guys who can't seem to control themselves. I think the smart thing for you to do, you did already by talking to him and being honest. You don't want to be with a guy who is like that anyways because it can just lead to worse things.

you defiantly did the right thing telling him the truth.

Rather than giving him false hopes, I think what you did was the right thing to do about the situation. You can't force yourself to like someone just because he likes you. And he can't force you to love him as well. It pays to be honest. No matter how much pain you caused to the guy, at least you're being true to yourself. And that you're not being unfair to the guy. He got drunk maybe because he got out of his system when you rejected him. But I believe it's the right thing to do . Best of luck

The way i see people when they get drunk is that they should know their limits,rather than trying to be clever thinking that they can handle their drink.People who get drunk can get rather violent,then they tend to blame things on the drink,saying that they diod not know what they were doing.I always remember what i have done when i have been drinking,aswell as i know that i am not a nasty drunk.I think that you did do the right thing telling him the truth,like i said we get drunk and we can remember what has happened aswell as what is going on around us.

I might sound cold but...... This is too much drama! I'm thinking that this is getting in the way of a bright, promising future for you. You did your job. You told him the truth and wouldn't have had to do that except he's so confused about himself he latching on to you to save himself. I know this is a strange analogy but its true! He's drowning in the sea of life! I'm 53, raised three boys and have seen what youth can do to themselves. Look ahead, be positive, hang with positive people, move on. You have much going for you. Take it and enjoy! God Bless.

Yes, I think telling him the truth was the best thing you could have done. If you didn't tell him, he probably would have kept liking you more and more. So it's good that you told him in the beginning. But it's not your fault he got drunk, that was his sole decision. So hopefully he isn't trying to blame you for that.