I don't dare to ask my partner

Sometimes that kind of question are better to ask.. but sometimes it is not better to ask.. because if you find his/her answer it might hurt you..

Sometimes,somethings shouldn't be asked. Like the things that he's used of doing. An d we shouldn't be comparing ourselves with his habits,vices etc. His answer might hurt your feelings. Better avoid to get hurt.

I think I do agree on you on that matter my friend. There are questions that we need to avoid asking our bf or partner. These are questions that may annoy or irritate them or things that may lead you to quarrel or argue. For me, I am aware with what my bf has been doing and dealing with. I hate asking him to choose although he is assuring me that he may choose me, yet I cannot take away the thought of what if he will not...I hate to know what will be his answer. I do not want to ask him or demand on something that may pressure him and will get mad at me. However, I believe that there come a time that we need to ask questions to let them know what maybe wrong or if something has to be discuss on and resolve them.

don't u want to know her/his answer. if i were u i would asked even i know if the answer will hurt me. the thing is i know what would he prefer then i can try the best i can to do my best

Nobody likes to be compared to something else, and nobody likes to choose between two things they love equally. It would be hurtful to the person you're comparing yourself with, and it'd be wrong to make someone hurt another by asking them to pick a favorite.

I don't ask these questions.. Because you can't really compare a person to an addiction. And for the question Me or her? His answer should obviously be you, if his answer is the other girl your relationship should be evaluated. I wouldn't ask my boyfriend that because I already know the answer, but if you have any doubts it might be better to ask that now rather than later.

Well I am with you in not asking certain questions but if I had to ask my husband about another woman...? I should be focused on him and vice versa. I have often told him it's not me who will lead him to make the right choices he makes in life but God. I don't tell him to give up his life but I feel if we are being guided by God then he should know what is best.