How do you feel after you and your partner fight?

After my boyfriend and I fight, we make out, and then some. Seriously, he and I just cannot help it, but it's like fighting just puts a lot of spice and passion into our relationship.

I think that feeling will never go away. The trick now is to make sure that you overcome this feeling and learn to grow. Even if it means you have to make concessions in your relationship, as long as you understand each other, and you know that nobody is perfect, then you might have a chance. Good luck!

I feel really awkward when we fight. Half of me wants to give him a cuddle and tell him that everything's okay and that I still love him, and the other half of me really doesn't want to let him know that I will forgive him- because if I do, he will think that he can treat me the way he did whenever he likes. I will never go to bed on an argument though. I always make sure that we have sorted things out before we go to bed. We don't argue that much- mainly because I don't have the energy to. I find it so much easier to just do all of the work around the house and cook all of the meals, because if I nagged him about it, it would only result in an argument. In fact, he has gone out with a friend this afternoon, and before he gets back, I will have to wash a load of dishes, take the rubbish out, hoover the lounge, and do a load of his ironing. Anything for a quiet life!

Whenever i would have a fight with my partner, I would be the first one to feel guilty. Sometimes the fight would be over something so silly. I would be the first one to apologize. Life is too short to let misunderstanding come between you and the one you love. fighting just seems to bring more emotion out and words are said that can't be taken back.

I felt exhausted after every fight. Physically and emotionally exhausted.

If its still bothering you after a few days maybe you haven't opened everything with your partner yet.I think you will feel that way when sometimes you haven't said everything what you want to say yet then maybe because your partner willingly admits his fault that you just of course let it go. Or it depends on the problem, it its a jealousy problem them you have talked already yet something still feels not quite right... then that is another issue.. I believe in woman's intuition.

Oh I always feel horrible after the fight. The fight is usually about me not listening to my partner, and it turns into an argument and than into a fight. This happens to us almost twice in a week or twice in 2 weeks where we have a fight. But it's part of life, because without fights life would be boring.

well, after a fight, we would usually just shut up and not talk... it works for us that we keep ourselves quiet and after that we'd just forget that we did have an issue... it feels weird and awkward actually after a big fight...

I know how you feel, friend. Big storms come along in every relationship but as a couple you need to communicate with an open heart and mind to overcome it. Deal your problems immediately. Check your heart and accept any correction if it was your fault. May I share you this: one time after our fight, I felt and asked myself, "is this the husband I have married years ago?" I sent him texts about how I feel because I can't express myself when he's nagging. Yes, he nags sometimes. He setup a date and we had a serious talk about it. Everything went well and we're still together.

When it comes to feelings, many things could be distinguished which is wrong or right. Men are blind in their own cause. Just calm down then deal with it.

I always feel guilty, because sometimes i'm doing big fights for little problems. I'm that kind of person and when i'm nervous i'm always small minded. Sometimes i make notes really for little things, which doesn't have any sense. And at the end i always tell him that i love him too much and i'm sorry that i was small minded. I feel guilty because my boyfriend lives in pain all the time - he got kidney stones. And it really hurts him a lot. But when i feel full with bad emotions, i always tell him what is this about. That's how i hurt him even more. At the end we finish with conversation about how much we love each other. And that make me calm and brings me good feelings.

My wife abusing/misbehaving me since 25 years. She always says i should die. I have to take depression medicine due to her. I am living just for my children.

...it would be best to talk with your partner about it and fix it...if there is something that is bothering you and this is pertaining to the previous fight then you cannot say it is a resolved incident, right?...although yes, there are instances that we tend to feel there is something missing or something that is bothering us still even after we did a resolution with our partner..rather than keeping it yourself, it would be best and fair to share that with your partner to talk things over..

im feel so tired with problem come to me,it so diffical

Hello p3ks626, I don't feel good about fights, it makes us feel like we don't understand our partners completely. Usually when we have fights, i am the one to complain a few things to my girlfriend. Honestly, i say a lot more than i ought to. But eventually everything settles down soon, but it is never comfortable, i make her feel like i don't trust her. I can only wish everything goes well. Fights between couples are always emotional, sadly. At least in my case and it's rather depressing.

it's part of the relationship. but we should always have space to recover and get to talked again to reconcile.

Hi P3KS626!. I usually feel relieve after a fight because I already speak out what in mind and he can hear it very clearly. In the same time I don't feel good because in the fighting process I can not control my word and usually hurt his feeling. I think if we had a problem its better to solve it while drinking a tea and in good mood, try not to arguing.

I've been with my partner for a year now and can honestly say we don't fight at all. We certainly don't agree on everything but we do on all of the important things, so anything else just isn't worth getting heated up about :) Life is too short to argue and whine bout things imo, and 99% of all arguments don't solve the issues anyway. Communication is key, in my experience most arguments start when one person misunderstands or misinterprets the other, so keep your heart on your tongue and keep talking :)

it seems you are in an emotion turmoil.stay calm and composed for few days and read your mind.i can assure, you will get a solution.