Your wife is infertile, do you still love her?
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@IntrovertShy (2780)
Marikina, Philippines
August 27, 2010 5:39am CST
For example, your wife is infertile and she told you that she can't give you a child, do you still love her or you won't love her anymore? I have asked this question a millions times to the people I encounter and there is one guy answered that he would find another girl if he knew that her wife is infertile. I don't understand. I thought, love conquers everything-- "Through thick and thin, 'till death do us part."
6 responses
@saphrina (31551)
• South Africa
27 Aug 10
Sweetie, that guy is a freaking idiot.
Yes, a lot of couples would love to have children, but it is not possible for all.
No offense, but i hope that guy don't get a wife.
Men who react that way ain't worth to be loved at all.
TATA.
@IntrovertShy (2780)
• Marikina, Philippines
28 Aug 10
Oh yes. That guy told me that the girl would do the same thing if a husband is infertile. Hope my english is correct. I was hurt when he answered that way.
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@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
27 Aug 10
Yes.., I love this topic.., I want to know how most guys would think about this.., I believe in "Love conquers all" too..,and it would be heartbreaking to a woman who is infertile and their men would leave them because of that.., I know some men would love to raise their won children so adoption is not an option for them.,, i would definitely salute to a guy who would stick to their wives even if she cannot bear his child...,
@IntrovertShy (2780)
• Marikina, Philippines
28 Aug 10
Me too. I remembered the last movie I watched. The title is "UP"-- a walt disney production. The husband and wife love each other even if a wife is infertile. That movie is awesome and lots of lesson on it. I love that movie.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
5 Sep 10
thats stupid that he would leave her bcs of that. thats not a reason to leave someone. she loves him and he even would leave her? how would he have courage to that? the poor girl found out she cant be pregnant ever and he even leaves? thats too selfish and thats not love what he feels for her. when we love we accept this person no matter what happens^^ that guy is too selfish. they could try other ways to have kids. sure he could be sad and hurt but thats not a reason to leave her.
@czanwell_30 (717)
• Philippines
27 Aug 10
I think it's unfair if a man will leave his wife just because they can't have children. But it is legal and right to get an annulment or a divorce if the woman keeps this a secret to her husband before they were married. She should tell the man first so further problems would be avoided.
The fact is so simple that is stated in the Family Code that two people get married to start a family. And if the woman can't bear a child, and the man really loves his wife, it's alright to have a legal adoption in the process of starting a family.
If the husband really love his wife he will not leave him and do any possible things so he can make her wife happy. That is what I believed.
@syvels (258)
• Philippines
28 Aug 10
say i am a man and im married but my wife's infertile, i would be sad, of course, but i will still love her despite the fact that we wont have our own child. my wife would need special care and comfort, i will let her feel that im still grateful for having her and that it's not her fault.. im always open for "adoption" anyways...
