why women/girls won't accept they are weaks & loser...???
By Tushavi
@Tushavi (2077)
Karachi, Pakistan
August 27, 2010 8:45am CST
hi to all
well, this is serious discussion, God creates women/girls weaks its natural thats girls are very weak & loser, Maybe, Now a day I am tired of modern girl, I have Canadian girl she is origin from Pakistan, but she wont accept she is weak & loser, I do my best to proven that she is one but i won't maybe, i wanna marry with her, but here its tradition if girls powerful than you, you can't marry with her, so I am so much worried you tells me anything thatch makes me powerful & makes loser my girl.
Have a nice day.
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17 responses
@laglen (19759)
• United States
27 Aug 10
lmao what in the world makes you think women are weak and LOSER???? are frickin nuts?
Men and women are different. Thats all. It does not mean women are weak. It means WE ARE DIFFERENT!
Here is a good example - you try to give birth
@prettyauds (258)
• Philippines
28 Aug 10
Hahaha! He should really try giving birth or at least being pregnant. Maybe he just don't have the b-a-l-l-s to have a modern girl (smart,independent but still loving) into his life. Who do you think is the loser now,you or the girl that you want?
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@youless (112586)
• Guangzhou, China
28 Aug 10
I don't like the concept that girls are weak and they are losers. This is totally wrong. I will feel like being looked down upon by my dear one if he thought so. This is also hurtful in my opinion.
Girls are just sensitive and much more emotional than boys. But it doesn't mean that we are weaker than you. Actually when it is under the utmost pressure, usually girls behave stronger than boys.
The confidence will make a difference for anybody. Throw out your unnecessary worries and discrimination. If you love her, then you shall marry her. If you are afraid that she is much more powerful than you, then you are the loser.
I love China
@Galena (9110)
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27 Aug 10
sounds like you're a loser.
your self esteem as a man is dependant on thinking you're better than someone else.
yep. sounds like pure loser to me.
strength comes in many different forms.
my husband is physically stronger than me, but he's the first to admit that I'm cleverer than him, and braver too.
very often a woman is the spine of her family, and she'll hold everyone up through hard times, when others can't even keep themselves going.
women are strong.
while you like to think that by being more powerful you are making less of a person of your partner, you are proving your own weakness, not your strength.
you are not strong because you need others to be less than you to feel strong.
so you are weak.
have a nice day, loser.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
27 Aug 10
U are full of crap & have no idea what u are talking about. Wish u could have walked in my shoes u would find out i didn't have a weak bone in my body & at 67 i still don't. I guessed what country u came from before i even looked. U better change your attitude or u will spend your life alone & that's what u deserve.
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@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
28 Aug 10
Thanks pretty, i don't go by granny, my grandchildren call me BOBO, LOL.
@prettyauds (258)
• Philippines
29 Aug 10
Hi ma'am Bobo! You're welcome! you're cool. Always take care! :)
@momof3kids (1894)
• Singapore
28 Aug 10
Tushavi, even when women are to respect their husbands, their husbands have to respect them back. Wives when they have children are mothers to their husbands children and to raise children, you have to show respect to their mother so that the children will obey and rspect her and not slap her around.
And when a girl goes to school and has a proper education, she will raise children who will be as clever or cleverer than her. Isnt that you will want one day? Clever children?
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@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
28 Aug 10
This is some bad tradition, hey man we are in the 21st century wake up! Women are not weaker than men or losers. We are the same. There is no way that you can show that you are powerful and your girlfriend is a loser and still expect her to marry you.
I would never marry someone who want to make me feel weak when o know i am not.
Sorry but if you keep trying to prove she is a loser i am pretty sure you are just going to lose her. She will go off and try to find someone who wont tell her that she is a loser or that she is weak.
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@chiyosan (30183)
• Philippines
28 Aug 10
well i think we'd never really accept anything like that.. we can be weak at times, but not all the time! :) For me, i won't accept being a loser because, i won't make myself one. not even weak because with all the hardships i have been through as a girl, barely an adult i was able to get through hard things, and i am forever feeling that i am successful now - and i actually never have thought i would reach this point, but i did.... So people, actually boys or girls, we are not made by God to be weak. we are made to do great things!!
@Phaedra_Scythe (3325)
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27 Aug 10
Are you kidding me with this?!
The strongest people I know are women. They go through hell and come out the other side even more beautiful because they are survivors.
You think childbirth is for weak losers? Give it a go and then get back to us.
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@Pose123 (21635)
• Canada
27 Aug 10
Hi Tushavi, Most of the world no longer believe that women are losers, but equal to men in every respect. If you want to continue believing as you do, than you should look for another girlfriend who thinks as you do. This girl has lived in Canada and has been raised to think differently and there is little hope that you can have a happy life together. Blessings.
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@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
27 Aug 10
Are you serious about what you are saying or are you simply trying to get some attention to yourself? By the way which century do you come from and from where do you get such ridiculous ideas? I think if that canadian girl has any sense she should look elsewhere. Anyway , from which part of the world do you come from?It would be interesting to know...
@prettyauds (258)
• Philippines
28 Aug 10
I think he's serious to get a lot of attention,and from what I see,he did get it. But all are criticisms for him. :))
@shira0524 (482)
• United States
27 Aug 10
These are very old-fashioned, "traditional" values and while some cultures still uphold and nurture these, most of the rest of the world no longer does. I would suggest that you find a girl who has the same values and views as you in this case; if you're sure you want to continue with the girl from Canada, then it seems you need to 'get with the times' a little more and accept that people do not view women in such an inferior role any longer.
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@prettyauds (258)
• Philippines
28 Aug 10
Hello?! What makes you think that women are weak?? God created women for men to have a companion,and there's no writing or what so ever that women are weak. Why the heck will girls accept that they are weak and losers when they're not? Women and men differs from each other. Insecurities is what makes men worry that their girls are more dominant or powerful than them. Weak men are those who are afraid of us,women who are independent and confident. I think it's either you take what your girl is,or leave her alone. Cheers to all the women! :)
@trishasantos (1297)
• Philippines
27 Aug 10
Okay seriously that's too old fashioned. People are created DIFFERENTLY, man and woman are DIFFERENT. It's not who is the weak or the strong. If you really want to marry that girl, then you have to change your views, because women nowadays are not so weak as what you think.
@deriellevc73 (982)
• Philippines
28 Aug 10
hello tushavi!
i pity you for thinking like that. who would ever tell you that women are weak and losers must have hated women.
a woman carried you for nine months in her womb. she cared and nurtured you, i wonder why you would every say a woman is weak? men and women are created differently to co-exist, not to be superior or inferior to each other.
now i ask you, what can you do that a woman cannot do?
if you want someone who would always say yes to your bidding and who would kneel down to you to everything you say, then it would be better for you to marry a dog. for no woman deserved to be treated like that. and if indeed there would be a woman willing to do that for you because she loves you, then i vow to her. She will go down and do that for you not because she's a loser, but because she loves you and that would be most unfortunate of her, loving someone who thinks women are weak and losers.
@santosmarichris (1849)
• Philippines
28 Aug 10
Haha... Lol... I'm sorry, I know this is a serious discussion, but I can't help it, . The word weak and loser is just not a good combination to use. No body not even a woman or man would want to be called weak and loser... Men and women differ in their personality some just have stronger personality than others. Most women who are independent have a very strong personality, it's a good trait, same with men who are very independent and strong willed. You just have to look for the right woman. If a woman has a strong personality she would definitely look for a man who have a more stronger personality.