"Can you Deny a Child of Yours just to Start a New Life"

I think that's rather uncalled for. The present husband would be hurt if he knows about it someday. Whatever the reason, I personally feel he should know about it.. it's not a lie if it's not being told, but in a way, that's called deceiving..

oh. i have seen guys who would run away from their girlfriends the moment they impregnated them.. i guess that is the same from not acknowledging your son/ daughter. but for a mom... for a woman not to acknowledge her child whom she carried for 9 months, and have had a difficult labor of... wow! that is unbelievable. i have not known a woman not taking responsibility of his child and not letting the world know... do you know how much it would hurt the child? knowing your mother is not proud of you and is hiding you.. and abandoned you to your grandmother!! that is worst than giving you away.

I can 't deny my own child for the benefit of my own happiness. I can deny many things except my own child. If there is another guy who courted me before we go to an intimate relationship i will tel him all about me then if he accept it this is a good sign that we can be at peace together as he really loves me with no reason. True love accept all. No matter how it goes or happen. Let us be true to ourselves when it comes into love for there is no reason to regret. Have a nice day!

i am the denial child. my father deny me because he want to marry with someone else. he is not only deny me, also my mother too.it hurts me deep till now. learning from there, i won't deny any of my kids

I can't do that. It's too cruel and immoral. I hope you will not be offended, I personally think your friend had already lost the qualification of being a mother. And truth will come to light sooner or later! When that day comes, what will her current husband think?

I could not think of someone who could deny his or her own child. That person is so selfish if she really denied her child just because she hates the father. The child is innocent of everything! I the child grows up and knows about what happened she should sue her own mother for doing it! What the mother did was cruel. It will eventually get back on her in the future.

Dear friend, I do have 3 years old daughter, I am seperated, The court gives me permission to see my child just 5 hours a day in a month so as to keep a fatherly relationship with the child. I never denied my child, moreover I cannot even think of that. I had few proposals for marrige most of it got declined as they want me to avoid my child and few got rejecting me. Moreover most often I have to pay money as per court order and I pay it with full happiness.

I don't know. But I think I can't. It is my own kid. Why should I deny it? It is not his mistake. He also doesn't ask you to be his parent. It is just fate that brings you and him to become parent and child. Mmm.. There is always be ex girl, ex boy, ex wife, ex husband.. But there is not ex-child.

I won't deny my own blood and flesh. I think if the man/woman really loves you he/she can accept you as you are. If ever my soon to be wife told me about that I would not think twice to accept that fact. I love her, I want her to be honest. Everything she loves I would love too and accept it with all my heart. You can change you wife and husband but not your Son/Daughter.

I think that she's too selfish to accept the fact that in due time she will be a mother soon. It's an immoral action just because she hates the father. Well, in the first place she should have thought the possible outcome before giving into temptation, Nevertheless she deserves to bear the pain alone.

that would be the least thing that i would do... i will be a proud mom.

I have a baby. She's 10months old now. I had her when I was 19. I do have regrets having her this early in my life and sometimes it strikes me to just give her to her father and go away, but I can't. Sometimes I'm very determined to just leave her behind and start a new life, but every time I look at her, it makes me feel like I'm the worst person in this world to ever think such a thing. She has been making me happy and making me strong. Everything is difficult right now, and some things will be really hard in the future. But leaving her behind, denying her? I couldn't do it. It's like leaving a big part of me behind.

it's a big NO for me.. actually,i had an experience with this situation..my husband does not really denied his son,he just hide the fact that he has a child because he thinks that it would hurt me,but he ended up hurting me more when i found it out from other person.. it's not really esy to be in this situation,but come to think of it,it's not the fault of the child to be born out of wedlock so he doesn't need to suffer denial and negligence from his parents..the parent should face the fact that he/she has a child and does not have any right to deny him from his right to be recognized as this may be prejudicial to his growth as a social human being..

Iyah, Recently, my daughter turned 9 and her father didn't call to wish her a happy birthday. He abandoned me and the kids (I have two) for a new life with his mistress. My sister has also done something very similar, by leaving her daughter with our aunt and running off with man after man, and not calling or visiting her for almost 5 years.