Dispute with our lovers

When my husband and I are having arguments, I also want him to listen to me and what I want to say but of course, that is something difficult for him to do. My husband when we argue he doesnt want me to say anything anymore, he just wanted me to just forget everything. Anyway, we still need to work out on that for now.

there is nothing to settle,dear. by hook or crook girls win the race or in other words the boys let the girls win.boys also get happy when their girlfriend feels that they always win.actually its a win-win situation for the guys.

If I and my husband has an argument, I control my temper and see to it that I don't tell things that I would regret later on. If his mad at me, I will just keep quiet and will let his anger subside then if I know he was already calm, I will say sorry then explain my side of the story. I would do this because I would like him to understand where I am coming from. After I explain to him my side, I will make it clear to him that expressing myself doesn't mean that I am not ready to settle our differences but it is just a sign that neither of us are perfect and that we owe to each other understanding on situation like this.

Whether it is a lover's dispute or with friends, trying to be calm when the other is already talking non-stop is a best way to let the situation cool down. Let him say his piece, then in a calm way tell him that you hope things will be all right soon and that it is better if you talk about it again when things are not heated.

Whenever I and my partner had misunderstandings,I keep quit for some time,letting things go cooler and then I just smiled at him,give him a hug and kiss then everything's will be alright!