Are you willing to give yourself a chance for a relationship?
By SimpleBB
@SimpleBB (1329)
Philippines
August 29, 2010 8:43am CST
Status of divorce, annulment or even broken relationship is undoubtedly increasing. For so many reasons, even those well-known or dear to us, whom we know being in these different categories started well, are now somehow suffered or affected. We know them well had a very good start, but now wa are also aware of its ending.
For single people, do you think this would affect your insights to be in a relationship? And for those who's been a sufferer, do you think you are willing to give another chance to be again in these relationships?
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13 responses
@jaiho2009 (39141)
• Philippines
29 Aug 10
Hello simpleBB,
Yes, i am willing to take another risk (if i need too) to give myself another chance.
Having fear always will not give us give results.
It is better to lost and fail,than never trying at all.
Overcoming fear is not to avoid the situation,but face it with willingness to take another chance.
Fear to fail is the biggest fear that we should overcome.
No one will succeed when we always fear about failure.
No one wins when we quit before trying.
Happy weekend
@SimpleBB (1329)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
Hi jaiho,
it is really fear that will let us fall. Like that saying that it is better to have love and lost than never to have love at all. Trying is always the keyword, for it will lead us to path of finding what is really for us. And our strong opponent is unwillingness to keep trying. Hope this would turn an eye opener. thanks. Happy mylotting.
@jhyan007 (467)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
...everything depends upon how you deal with your relationship and how much you can give and you will understand...the foundation of all relationship is the relationship you have with your self...if your relationship with your own self is good, then you know how to handle your relationship with other people..although, we have to be open-minded enough to understand that sometimes, there are things that doesn't work at all..
@nicole00 (141)
• United States
29 Aug 10
You cant let hat you've been through affect your now time. If you let your past affect your future than you really havent left the past. There is always room for positive future but you can not leave room to the negative past. Love your self enough to let go of mess and the past and move on to greater things. If you dont allow your self to grow and move up past the past then you will always remain on the bottom and you will never see what the future has instore for you.
@SimpleBB (1329)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
What a nice view. We really have to learn to love ourselve first if we want to be happy in life. When we speak of love, everyone should have a positive outlook to have the happiness meant for them. But sometimes, yes you're right, it is the pain of hte past that hinders to continue on trying for a second chance. Well, people differences, some are courageous in facing the pain as opposite to some weak people. But I agree that those who finds happiness are those risk takers.
@SimpleBB (1329)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
Two thumbs up to that. It is a true quote..no pain, no gain. We could never be strong if we don't know what is the feeling of being hurt. and if we found the one meant for us, that would be a fantastic feeling and happiness. don't stop trying. Thanks for dropping your lines in this post.
@kiran8 (15348)
• Mangalore, India
29 Aug 10
I have had my fair share of troubles and problems but I still feel that if one can make a relationship work out there is nothing like it.It is not easy to build a relationship, but very easy to break it, sometimes all that is required to break it up is a few heated words spoken in anger ,frustration or whatever...Have a nice evening and happy mylotting
@jugsjugs (12967)
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29 Aug 10
In our marriage we have had lots of people trying to split us up over the years aswell as cause alot of trouble.I think that if your love is strong enough then you are prepared to try to make it work no matter what the problems are.I find that there are people out there that tend to chuck in a relationship rather than making the effort in making it work.It is easy to walk away,but not soo easy to turn the clock back.
@SimpleBB (1329)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
Well having destroyer around no matter what they reasons are is really inevitable and you're right, confidence, trust to each other and communication are really essential to strengthen a relationship. Happy mylotting and we always have to be strong and be confident.
@sender621 (14893)
• United States
29 Aug 10
We should always be willing to take a chance for a relationship. i think the risk is worth it. We never know when that special relationship of a lifetime will come along. We have to be willing to accept it when it comes. Even if i know my heart may get broken, I will not give up on the chance on a relationship.@SimpleBB (1329)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
You have that nice principle. Accepting whatever comes to us makes us more prepared and stronger to face all those various trials. We really could not find happiness if we ruined by just a single failure. Thanks for this response, you're a courageous risk taker, for sure you will find happiness with that attitude.
@caliya (1169)
• Philippines
29 Aug 10
You know what, I already had my share of heartaches but I still believe in love. Call me nuts but I am still hoping that one day I will live happily ever-after with the person who love me for who I am. I know it wouldn't be perfect but still I am not giving up hope.
@bear2010 (2)
• China
29 Aug 10
Yet,in opinions,when you married with some one,it means you have know someone well.But something goes wrong in our life often,something will change.Also,some one will .We need to know this and we need to give a chance to each other.If We can think something in his(her) place,we will know what to do next.
@SimpleBB (1329)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
There is really noone ever sure of what lies ahead for us. Though we knew each other well, but probably because of various circumstances that surrounds us changes even those things we consider certain. Well considering experience is the best teacher, let's hope that next time would be beter for us.
@SimpleBB (1329)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
Thanks akn, actually life is really short that we should not waste time to live to its fullest. If we failed to one thing, forgiving and giving chances will do to let us find what is there for us to really make us happy. thanks for this shared views.
