What we want from our partener

Hello, Very legitimate question. Sometimes we overreact, sometimes we become unnecessarily humble. What we often fail to do is to maintain a moderate behavior. This is mainly because we misunderstand ourselves a lot. We don't devote enough time to properly evaluate our own needs. I must mention here though that understanding one's self is truly difficult task. Especially today's environment encourage material undertakings to such an extreme level that we drift away from our true needs and confuse between our needs and our wants. In this stressful process all our ability to empathize vanishes. We become less tolerant. Everything in the end hinges on the understanding and realization of self. One who can handle himself will be able to handle others excellently. We shouldn't, under any circumstances loose our self esteem and reasons. Thanks. God bless you

Nice question. What any one wants from a life partner is that he/she would love them so much that no one has ever loved before. One just expects love and nothing else from our partner. That's all. It may seem simple but it's indeed a herculean task! Cheers!

We cannot get whatever we want and we do not want those whatever we get. These are the most interesting stages in human life. I do not know if I am happy with my partner as a whole or not and she also does not know the same. Though we are a satisfied couple, living and enjoying the mundane realities and becoming old day by day. I think each of us should take care of our partner at the best and perform the duty and responsibility as it should be. We must be sincere and honest to each other.

HI there. I don't know if i demand much from my partner. I don't demand material things, all i want from my partner is her time and attention. So simple but so hard to be granted. We've already talked about it and as of now im partly contented.

Sometimes I think I am too demanding but I think I am not cause I am asking the same things from my husband and we are still working out for it. There are times when he asks something from me too and I try to do something about it and I must say I have improved. I dont know if my husband can see that but I think I have.

Want is a term which varies person to person.To me abalance of both is needed for a healthy relationship.Both has his own value.Sometimes if your partner doesnt demand anything,you may feel little disheartened.But if your parner is very demanding,it can create great trouble.So balance of both is the key.

I have been too tolerant which i am regretting now. I should have been a mixture of demanding and commanding.

I want my partner to be both demanding and tolerant. I don't want me to be superior over my partner, We should be equal in that aspect for us to maintain our respect to each other. I do believe that respecting each other is one of the major factor to make a relationship work.

I want him faithful to me, sincere, and honest all the time...Would accept me no matter what, love me unconditionally, and will entrust our relationship to God.

I want my partner to be someone who cares a lot about me, who will love me no matter what I've been through, who will take the time to know everything about me, who will take into consideration what my reaction would be if he does something. I want someone who will take care of me, just like how I would take care of him. I want someone who I will share everything with, someone whom I will have a give and take relationship with. I don't want someone who's perfect. I just want him to be sensitive enough to know what things to do and when he should do them. I'm tired of handling relationships on my own. Relationships take 2 people to make it work.