how insecure are you?

Hey there.., You are not alone.., I can also be really insecure.., when it involves my boyfriend.., I can't help but feel a pang of insecurity.., I don't wanna admit it.., but It's true.., and I think it happens from time to time.., I am more insecure of my figure rather than my face..=(

hi there my friend! i would advise you not to do this asking about the ex thing. this creates more harm than good. trust me... i'm not saying that all men are annoyed whenever this sort of topic pops up but most of the guys i know feel the same way that i do. it's just normal to be insecure but try to out grow it asap. think about this, your guy courted you because he saw something in you. you girls are fond of comparing... what's up with that? :) my girlfriend's ex is richer and... sh*t! he's the model type dude but i don't care. she's with me now and we're happy. and i stole her from him! bwahahaha! kidding... i'll put it this way, your guy won't be what he is now if not for his past. just try to accept everything about him and it'll do wonders in your relationship.

I used to be very insecure. I felt like that about my boyfriends exes too at first. But really, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. He thinks I'm more attractive than they were. So instead of feeling insecure, if he tells you your beautiful, just believe him. Some people will think your attractive, some won't. Just brush it off your shoulder, that's what I've learned to do. Don't question it anymore. We were born the way we are, we can't change our appearance, so we may as well learn to be happy with it. There are little things we can do to improve it.. Makeup, learning to do hair, wear nice clothes, etc. But your boyfriend likes you the way you are, he wants YOU, not his ex's. So try not to think about them as much.