i want a guy like this^^ please read this cute but sad story
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
Portugal
August 29, 2010 7:26pm CST
hi guys^^ i have this friend i met online and he told me his cute but sad love story. he loved this girl much, she was his gf and she broke up with him and is with other guy. it has been a long time already since they broke up it has been 3 years already and he still loves her. he said that he tried to date other girls but never worked. bcs he still loves her. what you guys think of this? i wish i had bf like him that really loved me. i told him already to find new girl that there are lots of sweet girls but still he loves her. i feel sad for him but at same time i feel he is so sweet bcs he really loves her. it doesnt make you guys wish to have bf like him? ^^ 
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@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
30 Aug 10
It is truly unfortunate that people do not see a guy like this to be such a warm and loving person.
I with you here yes I would love and adore someone like him and treasure him forever.
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
31 Aug 10
It is so unfortunate my friend but life is filled just as many bad ones as there are good ones.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
31 Aug 10
yess ahah ^^ he is a dream of all girls^^ i wish someday i find a guy like him thats what im waiting for since forever ahah ^^ so sad that he cant move on :( i wish he also finds a girl to love him so much :) he doesnt deserve to be stuck loving someone that wont love him again. i wish he can move on soon and be happy^^ anyway we all girls should have boy that loves us really why boys dont be like that huh? ahah ^^ playboys time ended already ahah
@DawGwath (1042)
• Romania
31 Aug 10
Yes we can choose, we're not robots. First you have to love yourself and that's enough. I know it's hard, but after a while you won't see love as a wild beast but as a controlable energy. I may sound egotistic and it's true, I am selfish but after all you have to be a little selfish or you can never be trully happy in an apathic world.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
31 Aug 10
he cant choose to love someone else. love doesnt work like that. you know you say he is a fool but is not his fault that he cant move on. he tried it already but couldnt. we cant just choose i wont love this guy anymore i will love this one. if we could then we would never be heartbroken. i know he has to move on but doing that is not easiest thing in the world. move on is hard and hurts bcs we see person we love not being with us never.
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@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
oh, of course not.. you don't i mean.. if he loves you that much, you(or this woman) will probably not look for other man). there is more to their story than what this guy might be saying. just a reality check.. they could have loved each other so much but, i'd say the guy must have only realized the woman's importance when he saw her with another guy... and he took her for granted...
of course if i was the girl, i would not want him to love me still, even after a year or a few months. i would wish him to have a good life... to move on and be happy too.. for me and for himself; we never got together and did not became us because there could be other people born for us... that is what fate is, i guess... :)
when you find a guy who loves you? never drive him away, and when a man realizes his true love for a girl, let her always know... sometimes we forget... don't we?
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
31 Aug 10
well my friend really loved her but she fell in love for other guy and left him :( he wanted her back but she doesnt love him anymore. anyway im sorry that even he dated other girls he couldnt forget her yet :( but you are right he should see that he has a girl for him and that that girl is not the right one ^^ also when we find a guy that loves us we must not drive him away sure^^ and when a guy loves he must always let her know^^ i found a guy like this and i asked him to give me time :) i know he loves me but me i need time to love him too. i just know that i dont want him away but about love i need more time :) and when i love him too then i be with him :) bcs love is something we cant choose. but if someone loves us and we are not committed why not give a chance? ^^ we might be happy in the end^^
@cadguy08 (1224)
• Canada
30 Aug 10
Looks the same thing happen to me where I had a girlfriend that was married to someone but still for many years maybe 10 years or more , I still love her where I'm married to someone now but my heart still with her, don't know why but really I do love someone else than my living partner. Your post looks very familiar to me or same story of mine but mine is more longer than 3 years. i still kept her only picture I had in my wallet you know .
@cadguy08 (1224)
• Canada
1 Sep 10
There is no way that you can remove or move on I'm really stucked to my ex GF thinking about her all the time but I do love also my wife just the weighs was always in my love one that really makes my heart fall in love forever with this Girlfriend of mine , thanks for your kind responds about to talk to you . I even published her name in craiglist and looking for her, she knows where I am but I don't know where she is right now? I hope she doing fine.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
31 Aug 10
ohh im so sorry for you :( you know more and more i think that when a guy loves a girl is more powerful then when a girl loves a guy. bcs everytime i hear stories like yours is always a guy that continues loving for many many years. im sorry that you cant love your wife :( so sad but you should try to move on bcs your ex already is with other guy and loves him so you cant spend all your life loving her and being unhappy :( if you need talk about this you can message me :) i imagine how hard it is to live like all is ok when in reality your heart continues broken :(
@edwardjoy2000 (2387)
• United Arab Emirates
30 Aug 10
Yes it is indeed a sad story. I know how it feels when your heart is broken and you make all attempts to put your love on track. Its a hard feeling to carry on with life in such a situation. But finally life has to go on. We need to let something go top get someting even better...we never know what life has in store for us until we get it.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
31 Aug 10
yes edward^^ me too i loved a guy before so much and we were best friends and seemed he really liked me much but suddenly things started to change. was like i was caring much always and him not that much. till that many probs started to come and a girl also said a lie about me and he doubted about my word and things were not same anymore. i tried to forgive him and even sent him a message for us to be friends again if he wanted but he didnt answer me back so i wont try nothing else. is sad but i wont humiliate myself asking his attention. he was the one that should had sent message saying sorry for what he has done to me. and he didnt do it so is bcs he is ok and i am ok now too.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
31 Aug 10
wowww i wish was so easy^^ i want a guy like that since forever but all that appears is guys that say they love me and end up being careless to me :( is not that easy to find a guy that will love me forever and i love him back. also you are right saying is not bcs he is a guy but his feelings but i just meant that is sweet to see a guy loving like this bcs is usually us girls that take more time to move on ^^ so see a guy like this makes me dream to find one like him ahah^^
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
31 Aug 10
yes^^ he understood that already but still even he dated other girls he always ended up still loving her :( is like he cant move on. i guess he still hope she be with him someday i dont know. but for sure she doesnt love him bcs she knows he still loves her and has been more than 3 years if she wanted him she would be with him and not with someone else. for sure he has to find other girl too or his life will just be sadness when it comes to love :(
@eileenleyva (27560)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
sweetlove, tell your friend to get an antidote for aphrodisiacs, that is, if his story is real. But he might just be charming his way to get to you. Take necessary precaution.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
31 Aug 10
aww no eyleen :) im sure his story is real :) is usually me that go talk with him since he told me that about his ex :) he just wants to find someone to move on but he cant :( i really tried to convince him to find other girl but he still loves her. he even asked her to go back to him even she has a bf now. i dont know how i can help him bcs i already told him many times to find other girl bcs there are many sweet girls. but his heart doesnt obey.
@juggerogre (1653)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
I think the guy got to move on. Its very unfair for him. His girlfriend already found another guy so I think its also time for him to find another girl. Its a good thing to have such loving partner but he needs to let go for his own sake.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
31 Aug 10
yes i told him already there are so many sweet girls and he still loves that girl. he says that he tried already date other girls but always think bout that girl. he even talked with her and asked her to go back to him but she didnt accept. you are right he is so sweet continue loving her after so long time but sure he has to move on bcs he deserves to be happy and not spend all his life loving a girl that wont love him again.
@for3verfamous (2190)
• Canada
30 Aug 10
I feel very lucky that I have a boyfriend like this.. Though if I decided I didn't want to be with him anymore it would make me feel terrible. I think every girl wants a guy who will love her forever though.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
31 Aug 10
aww so sweet you have guy like that^^ anyway this girl didnt want my friend that is loving her since so many years already and she knows about it but still she is with that other guy. anyway i just wish she knows that my friend really loves her :) also i wish he can move on soon bcs has been many years already since he is crying bcs of her. and yes all girl wants a guy that loves her forever^^ but sometimes we find this guy but we dont love him back :(
