failures that come to your life? struggle with in and struggle with out

@bulastika (5966)
Philippines
August 29, 2010 9:59pm CST
Whole my life I'm in struggle with in and struggle with out. ... Struggle with in. Its hard to loss your father in younger ages. And our family is in decline ever since and until now we still not recover. The struggle with in is to be strong with in yourself. To struggle to stand again with your own feet as you keep on sliding down. ... Struggle with out. Struggle with out a father, Struggle without money and job. Struggle with things that you don't have.
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@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
30 Aug 10
All people who live in this world have to fight. Life is a struggle that never stops. To get the food we had to struggle to make money, and many other struggles. During still alive, we must keep fighting.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
31 Aug 10
Being rich and can afford to buy whatever you want is the dream of all people. How to become rich very diverse, everyone has their own way. They are good or bad way, at least they have struggled. I prefer to fight, in a good way, because there is no risk, but it requires a very hard struggle.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
5 Sep 10
Life is full of risk. Without taking any risk means you will achieve nothing. Going out of the house is a risk. You can be held and be killed. Drinking a water is a risk you don't know if theirs a deadly bacteria on it. As long theirs a chance of earning theirs always a chance of losing too.
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@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
Not all. 10% of of the world population has enough money to buy anything they want. They are the rich and famous. Sad to say almost all of those rich people seem don't deserve to have that money. But the reason why they are rich in the first place is that they do it in questionable way. So is questionable way of getting rich really pays?
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@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
30 Aug 10
I've long realized that material happiness simply won't last. To stumble and fall and then get back up is a more meaningful life than a life being offered in a silver platter. Difficult times will loom around all the time, so it's up to us to let it make or break within ourselves.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
5 Sep 10
Yeah that is true. Life is a cycle. Before I earn about 15,000 pesos. Or about 330 dollars a month. Now I barely earn 50 dollars a month. So right now I struggle to earn even 50 dollars a month.
@zed_k4 (17589)
• Singapore
4 Oct 10
Times are hard..then maybe it's time to reevaluate options..
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
5 Oct 10
That if I can find another option. But this time I can't find any option to increase my earning but to look for a job offline. I hope I can find offline job right now.
@caliya (1169)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
Almost all people in this world are struggling but even if we think about our struggles all day it doesn't change the fact that we need to struggle to survive. Instead of worrying too much about it we should strive hard and find ways to solve our problems and think positive. Better things will come. Stay focused and look at the brighter side of life. Cheer up!
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
Yeah that is true. But its so sad to thing that does who are lucky in life does not care about it. Right? I mean does rich people does not seem care if they waste their money for they earn more every month. But to does who are struggle in life why is it hard to find opportunity or a break to have a good life. Its seems the more you struggle the more you sink.
@caliya (1169)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
I know exactly how you feel. I have been in that situation but I am not going to let all the obstacles bring me down. I mean it's normal to feel bad and worry sometimes but we should always be optimistic at the end of the day.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
Yeah. Obstacles is obstacles if we see it as obstacles. But if we see it as a stepping stone then for sure we can reach our goal in no time. Problem is that stepping stone is sooo slippery..lolz.
@greygoo (795)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
yeah life can really be tough. but maybe the problem lies in the fact that we focus on what we don't have. we can't solve our problems because we keep on thinking "if only i had this....this could've been easier.." and stuff like that. the thing is, we probably don't have some things because, in the first place, we weren't meant to do anything with them. (don't get me wrong, i am on the verge of losing my father) we ought to focus on what we have. our talents and abilities are keys to our destiny. struggles shouldn't keep us from moving forward. sometimes they are there so we could discover what we are good at.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
5 Sep 10
I don't quit. That is my traits. I don't quit. No matter how long it takes no matter how hopeless the case is. Just hoping that soon I can achieve something. but its hard work if you ask me. I wonder why some has so much luck while I don't have.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
I understand very well. The problem is every time I make one step forward I end up sliding two step backward. So I really don't know where is the progress in here. For me progress is when theirs a one step forward and another step forward and so on. But life is not lke that in my case. Every time I step forward I end up stepping backward.
@greygoo (795)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
oh that's just sad to hear. hang on bulastika~ i know you're meant to conquer whatever struggles you're going through right now. don't quit. never quit.
@jhyan007 (467)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
...i have many difficulties in life, though i cannot really call them failures since they happen for certain reason why i can't figure out what it is...but i think everyone has their share of failures, difficulties and hardship...it all depends upon how we struggle and survive out from it..
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
5 Sep 10
I think every body survive from it 90% of the time. But for sure does 10% who didn't have really hard time standing up. And does who belong to 90% who survive only 10% of them really become stable and happy the rest has great tendency to return to nothing again.
@Libertywu (136)
• China
30 Aug 10
Life is tough. But the relationship between you and the life is just like rivals. When it's tough, you should be tougher. Then you win and be more brave in your later lifetime. Face reality and be a brave responses to life's challenges from which we growth, we succeed, we get value about ourselves and contribute to the society. Struggle, struggle,fight,fight for our happy life. Don't let this realites make us down, make parents down.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
5 Sep 10
Its still depends on the environment and luck if you ask me. I have a friend who daily go out to look for work and still not get one. I have a friend who is so lazy but it seems every time he decide to look for a job he can get one. Get my point? We must also accept that one is really better than others.
• United States
30 Aug 10
I know what it is like to struggle. My husband and I have been struggling as well. My husband also lost both his parents (his dad 12 years ago and his mom 3 yars ago). He is working parttime and cannot get ahead at work. His immediate supervisor is getting on his nerves to the point where we have no life at all. His immediate supervisor is upset that my husband and I made prior plans before the football games where going to be aired on the radio. The only rason his supervisor is giving him the day off is because he does not want to deal with my husband's "stupid wife". His immediate supervisor told my husband that he is not allowed to make any appointments or plans during the time he works Monday-Saturday. His only day off is Sunday. None of the doctors have office hours on Sundays and my husband is a vet and needs to get evaluated every six month. We have to drive five hours to get to the VA hospital and once he is in there we have no idea how long he will be in the office or waiting. I am not working either and want to launch an online craft store. I am also busy with school (I start on Sept 7th). I will be taking grad courses in Early Childhood Education. I wish I could help you out. I wish you the best.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
5 Sep 10
Thanks. But why not he relocate? I don't know in your country if bed spacer is allowed. Or if its cheaper if he drive or just take a bed spacer. I think its better that he take a bed spacer and just go hope every sunday. Its save him long hours of driving and at least can take a rest. .. Wow online craft store. If you can open one and want some local goods here in the philippines I can help you out. To be honest I have no back ground with this kind of business but it does not mean I can't try doing some research right? Especially beads. Its very cheap in here. I can make one. You can buy it from me then you can sell it online.
@fherfher (259)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
Every one do struggle. I understand how hard you are going through, even though i got my father with us. But as the eldest, I'm shouldering all the problems of my family, financially and emotionally. And its really hard. There are times, that i want to give up. But, i know all these struggles and problems are just a challenge to make us stronger and way of God for us to come back to HIM. No matter how hard your life is, always pray and don't ever 4get that God is always there for you. I found that prayer is the best medicine for everything. God Bless.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
Problem is that every time we gain something in life we loss it in just one accident or problem in life. Unlike rich people. Even with many problems their earnings is more than their liabilities. Unlike if you are poor. One of you got sick all the saving gone. And its a cycle.
• India
30 Aug 10
life is nothing but the struggle to survive,look at the animals n jungle..,there is no guarantee of life..!! but still they struggle to survive..,this life is the race and only those survive who will win the race..!! of course you have to struggle a lot to win this race..!! but once you win you ll have happiness and success around you..!!!
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
5 Sep 10
Yeah. But with 6 billion people around the world. Its very tight raise. I think we are the only living things that has that much population. Theirs no animal in land that weight more than 50 pounds that has more population than human.