What is the hardest thing you ever had to do for a friend?

@xenoyosh (121)
August 30, 2010 9:19am CST
What is the hardest thing you ever had to do for a friend?
4 responses
Secret
@IntrovertShy (2780)
• Marikina, Philippines
1 Sep 10
From the past, I always tell a lie for a friend but I didn't mean it. If I would tell the truth, she would get mad at me like if I have a boyfriend and I love him more than anything in the whole world, she would tell me bad things about him. She would get mad at me and she would tell me that I am not her friend anymore. The hardest thing I ever had to do for a friend is to tell the "truth"...
xenoyosh
@xenoyosh (121)
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1 Sep 10
for me the truth isn't that hard to say. Its finding the ways to say it that is hard. I would rather say the truth than get caught in a web of lies.
Secret
@IntrovertShy (2780)
• Marikina, Philippines
3 Sep 10
He he... I was wondering if you would tell the "truth", she would get mad at you and then, if you would tell a lie and she caught you that you are not telling the "truth", she would also get mad at you. Either of the two situation can't escape the fact that she would still get mad at you whatever you do to avoid your friend not to get mad at you.. ha ha ha...
unseenzy
@unseenzy (171)
• Philippines
30 Aug 10
The hardest thing that I had to do for a friend was to offer understanding yet I don't understand. Sometimes our friends need us to understand them but it is really hard to offer understanding when we ourselves don't even understand the situation.
xenoyosh
@xenoyosh (121)
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1 Sep 10
I can really relate. Even if we only base our understanding on mere imagination of the event, we want to be able to help them get over it or at least have an outlet for them to release that pain.
Metatronik
@Metatronik (6199)
• Pasay, Philippines
30 Aug 10
Well there is no MAJOR MAJOR hard thing that I ever done to my friend (Venus Raj style) because for what I remember I am always helping them in a fair manner.
raviteja_ravi84
@raviteja_ravi84 (2620)
• India
30 Aug 10
The hardest thing i had to do was telling them something bad or negative about themselves. But now one such friend of mine became a best friend now and we always do that and try to make ourselves much better than before. It's one of the ways one can recognize other''s negative point and who would know better than a close friend? Now i don't find anything difficult to tell or do something to a friend! Cheers!