internet: have you fallen for your chatmate?
By merraine1428
@merraine1428 (445)
Philippines
August 31, 2010 5:23am CST
i never experienced falling for a chatmate, but im curious to those with love stories that started from being chatmates and ended up being married.
would people really fall for real even if they haven't met? i wonder why and how, but these things do exist, i see a lot of people who knew or were able to meet up through chat, and oh! its just so amazing how they end up being lovers,,, ^^
7 responses
@tahuonggiang (47)
• Vietnam
31 Aug 10
Maybe, when chat with other, nobody knows since when they fall in love.
I sometimes met some trouble likes you.What a pity!!
@reckon21 (3479)
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
Of course it's possible to happen that chat mates can fall in love with each other given the chance that they each others face in the web cams and chat everyday. If they feel something for each other then definitely there is chemistry between them working on. I think it's more like if you had common things that you like together or there is some attraction toward each other.
Even in texting falling in love is possible and how much more if it happens during chatting on line. When you can actually see the real face of the person. In love time and distance is just a word...the most powerful thing is the emotions involved.
@merraine1428 (445)
• Philippines
1 Sep 10
what do you mean me? i've never fallen in love through chat,,, i just wanted to know if it was really possible,,,
@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
31 Aug 10
before,when i was still in college,i used to join chatrooms chatting with people from other universities here in the philippines.i also got the chance to chat with other people from different countries.but it was all just for fun for me.there are times i just joke around then leave the chatroom.it was all a game for me.i don't talk serious with chat mates,really.
there was a time i even get to chat my boyfriend that time,thinking if he would recognize me.well,he didn't.it's just for fun.
but nowadays i am chatting here inside this site.and able to get to interact with all kinds of people from different countries.i can say i am enjoying my stay here,but i have not meet someone i could fall for.i just like to have friends here and nothing more.
for i am not in favor of long distance relationships or should i say,virtual relationships,
i can say,there are all different kinds of people here and it is really up to them if they would fall for their chatmates.or other members here.
well,i think it's nice to be inspired being here because you want to interact with someone you are being fond of,and it is not impossible for you to fall for them if you really want to.
i can say,there are all different kinds of people here and it is really up to them if they would fall for their chatmates.or other members here.
well,i think it's nice to be inspired being here because you want to interact with someone you are being fond of,and it is not impossible for you to fall for them if you really want to.@annavi23 (6522)
• Philippines
1 Sep 10
it is possible only if you wanted yourself to be in love with that virtual someone.
but it might bring trouble to you.so don't believe too much on relationships towards people you meet virtually.may it be through internet or cellphone.
we all don't know what motives others do have for us.
@juggerogre (1653)
• Philippines
31 Aug 10
Nope I haven't fallen in love with any of my chatmate. I don't think I can love someone I haven't even met or haven't been with. It will take more than daily chatting on the web for me to fall in love with any chatmates. I am just basing this on my experience. So I am not saying its impossible to fall in love with your chatmate.
@manilatop10 (371)
• Philippines
31 Aug 10
well, it certainly gives the somewhat jaded phrase "can I be your chatmate" a boost of hope diba?
Eric
@sinliong (88)
• Indonesia
31 Aug 10
I've never feel it either. Well, at least none of my chat mates were ever knew that I fall for her :-P. I think at the first time, no one ever realized that they had fall for their chat mate since particularly, people do chat only for fun. The only thing they feel is just, there is something not right if they hadn't met with one of their chat mate yet. It feels strange. Until then, they reach a point where they want to meet with each other. (How's that sound..? Actually I feel so dumb writing that words... :-P).
Anyway, that is just my own thoughts, perhaps you can ask somebody else who has experience with their chat mate. See you...
@merraine1428 (445)
• Philippines
1 Sep 10
same here, coz i seldom chat, but maybe some feelings would develop if its done everyday huh?
@sjhaeki (795)
• Philippines
31 Aug 10
i don't know about that too. but these kind of things really do happen. a friend started her relationship that way, it was rather advantageous to the both of them since they live in the same city anyway. I'd be doubtful if it were me, people could lie about themselves since it's online.
guess love moves in mysterious way ^_^
