love it or leave it
By bokal2703
@bokal2703 (802)
Philippines
August 31, 2010 8:55am CST
Not all those who are together really love each other, and not all those who love each other have to be together. It is such a complicated matter, but do you think it is possible that two persons are only sticking with each other because of other reasons and not love?
7 responses
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
31 Aug 10
yes^^ some people are together bcs both love money and both are rich so they be together to even be more rich. some are together just bcs they are afraid to be alone. some are together bcs one of them loves the other and the other one loves someone else but chose this person bcs knows the love this person has for him is true. is sad but is true many people are together without love each other. but i dont agree with that. life is too short to spend it with someone we dont love. noone ends up alone bcs somehow in our lives we always find right person for us but is our choice to not let this person go^^
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
8 Sep 10
thanks so muchy ^^ wish you find right person for you^^
@bokal2703 (802)
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
Yes, you are right, there will always be reasons to be together, however the most important reason, like what you've said should be love.
@besthope44 (12123)
• India
31 Aug 10
Well some because of love others for reasons of friends or companions.
@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
31 Aug 10
The man I'm in love with we are trying yet again but the circumstance that we split up was out of our control at the time.....I think some people stay together even out of the fear of being alone.....
@bokal2703 (802)
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
I agree with u, it's sad to be all alone so, people decide to be together to try...
@Manojknair (603)
• India
9 Sep 10
First I would like to thank you for replying to my disscussion :-)
Two person stay together and dosent love each other ? But how long ? I dont think there will be any life in that.
There could be many reasons which holds them together.
Either they cannot show the society that they are not together.
Either they are parents who cares for their children
may their have to stay together for economical benifit .....there can be N number of reason ......... but question is is that a life....
@eurekafemme (5877)
• Philippines
27 Sep 10
Yes, it is true.
There are reasons why couples stay together even if they do not love each other or no longer love each other. One great factor is the the kids.Sadly, kids are not good enough to stay in love with each other but they are good reasons why you can be together even just as friends. If none of you is contemplating of having a new life with someone else or haven't fallen in love with someone else yet, this could be bearable.( I can live with it.;) )But, it is really a pain when you are stuck with someone yet your heart longs to be with another....
Others stay together because they think that they'll be more powerful, richer, famous if they joined forces and wealth.
Others not capable of falling in love stays together because at least their partners are making them feel good and bringing out the best in them.
Some would do it out of fear of being alone in their old age.Some for convenience.
Love isn't really necessary but I'd be lucky if I'll be hooked forever with the person I love so much...:)
@gali52 (7)
• Bulgaria
31 Aug 10
yes i think!there are many other reasons to live with someone without loving him!on first plase is havin a child with this person-you stay with him because of the child!or may be if you are afraid of staying alone!money-this is the reason in many cases!i can tell you many other reasons........actually i am starting to think this is not such thing as love!
@bokal2703 (802)
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
well, you have a strong point there, children should have a complete family, however I hope it would be a home bounded with love.
