Have you ever rued your past???
By tahuonggiang
@tahuonggiang (47)
Vietnam
August 31, 2010 9:55am CST
Hi everyone!!I have an unlucky story. I got married a young man, younger than me 2 ages. Until now, We have a cute baby but her dad still young,his behavior is too bad. He shouted me before my parent,he doesn't help me to prepair for out baby,too. He even didn't make me feel comfortable in life. Now, I don't want to live with him but I always think that my baby need dad but my husband is not worthy. Give me your advise, please!!!have a good luck!!!
5 responses
@swordfish2010 (109)
• Indonesia
5 Sep 10
tahuonggiang,
I'm very truly sorry for what happen to you but again thanks for being "friend" on mylot. My Mentor have giving me a very wise word about your issue, she say "Human is not able to change his character at anytime, if it change it only for a while and snap! it return again".
Having a baby in a young age are not easy. it require great love (not ordinary love but GREAT LOVE) i also having a baby boy at 25 years old my wife are very young also but we made it until now. because realizing the pressure are hard both mentally and financially hard. Your husband probably are thinking to avoid it with unleashed it onto you. Alike my self I only rely on my self to do it. facing these kind of man you need to give him some space and keep showing you compassion on him. Believe me Giving him more pressure are not helping. Win his love back and defend your family are the best thing you can do. Just Like in christian wise word "what you grow is what you gonna get".
If it too hard I recommend you to watch "Fireproof" Movie.. it has a good advice and morale value.
@rosielleanne (121)
• Philippines
31 Aug 10
Oh gosh. I'm so sorry you have to go through that but he doesn't deserve you and you really don't deserve being treated like that. If you want your baby to grow in a nice home, it's either you talk to your husband and try to work things out or you leave him. A friend told me that sometimes babies are better off without their dad with them. You can separate him, but if he wants time to see his baby, you should let him. If you think that your relationship will no longer work, you should sacrifice leaving him. Be strong for your baby. :)
@thebest1 (658)
• Romania
31 Aug 10
Hello!
This man don't deserve to be your husband!Your life will be hardest and hardest day after day,year after year.You said that your baby needs a dad...but what dad is that??And what he learn from his dad?To shot women?
What will see your baby after few years?Your eyes crying!I don't believe that you want this for your baby.
Maybe you love your husband very much,but he don't deserve to be with you,sorry.I hope you'll have good luck!
All the best and happy lotting!
@damned_dle (3942)
• Philippines
31 Aug 10
Why did you marry him in the first place? Try to talk to him first to change his attitude for your sake and the baby's sake. Maybe there is something bothering him or whatever his reasons are, you should know.