When people tells you. that you are short of inner peace. what do they mean?

Pakistan
August 31, 2010 1:30pm CST
When you show your love and attraction towards some and feel jealous for them. you tell them that you should not do this thing because you may find your self in trouble? when you try to drag them out of every problem which they are facing? when you show and tell them that they are very close for them and suddenly they start to react like they dont know you. May be there is a case that they are fed up of us like before. but if they tell you , that you are not having any inner peace in you. When they needed you they used to tell you that you are their every thing but when they are not any more in need of your then they say that you are should be among your own people. when they thought they need you, they told you that I want to pick and bring you some where closer to them selves and when they are fed up they dont even want to see you at all. it is just a General discussion, nothing personal. but have you found such cases?? or seen?? or may be gone through. have you seen such people in your life?? i think they are the one who are short of inner peace that they have taken all the advantages from you and relaxed them selves and now they are doing that to you. may be they find some one else? what do you say? Kindly some people stay away from this discussion.(thanks)(fighters) thanks take care
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@sender621 (14893)
• United States
1 Sep 10
When people say this i believe they are still soul searching. They are not yet satisfied with their lives. Something is missing from their lives that is not bringing them the joy and peace they want. They can't find a way to accept what they have and be happy.
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• Pakistan
1 Sep 10
Hello dear friend, thanks for your response and yes i believe that they are not good enough to see the world with different eyes, they only believe on what they see and what they listen but never try to find out the truth. thank you very much once again
@vandana7 (100531)
• India
1 Sep 10
Kiddo, I have seen enough life to advise a 23 year old I think. Some people are truly blessed. Rest of us we have our own trials and tribulations. We feel intensely about everything, be it joy or sorrow. If somebody tells you you are wrong walk away - you cant really change yourself much, but you can certainly change the environment, avoid people who are likely to hurt you. May be over the years, maturity in some issues might take over, and then you might find that the things that annoy you or hurt you now do not hurt you as much. After all, who remembers those childhood squabbles we had. And we always had differences with somebody or the other throughout our lives, didnt we? So give it time, treat it as a bad phase kiddo, and move on. Take care.
• Pakistan
1 Sep 10
yes, you are very very right. i believe that when we know we can get hurt from such people, we should avoid such people. because they are snakes, they show some thing else and are some thing else inside. i hate such people. and yes you are also right that i should move on with my life because life is going to teach me such certain lessons which i have never learnt. thanks for your response sister, and kiddo na kaha karo.. bohot bura lagta hai. bhai ya baita he kah deya karo haahha.. :P
@vandana7 (100531)
• India
1 Sep 10
Theek hai, to aaj se mere bete ban jaao. Daanti bahut hoon! (Its alright - become my son from today. I scold a lot. :) to nina's dont call me a kid, I feel bad. Call me brother or son) We need to translate nina. :)
• Pakistan
1 Sep 10
hahaha ok fine. But i am eldest son in my house. And i am the one scolding every one. Ziada ghusa na karna hahaha. But i am a good son