why do people change?
By oi_va_voi
@oi_va_voi (50)
August 31, 2010 2:17pm CST
I always wanna stay like as I'm already I'm and thanks God I don't feel any difficulty in it, but there's something wrong with the others. Everybody's changing sometimes when they want to adapt others or sometimes when they're sick n tired of life. This is what I guess at least. Do you have any other opinions?
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@emgee595 (335)
• Philippines
8 Sep 10
Life if a constant change and it is inevitable for people to change. Not only as a result of our daily transactions with our fellow human beings, people also change as a result of our interaction with everything around us-people, animals, our environment. Maybe it is also as a result of our reaction to what had happened to our lives. Some changes are good, some maybe bad and some changes are simply unstoppable-like human growth. Well even regression causes changes right? Since we can't stop changing...maybe it's a matter of choosing what kind of changes to bring into our lives. If these changes will make us better persons, there's no harm in it. Those that will bring negativity and harmful effects or even damage our lives are the ones that we should be apprehensive and be careful of. Each one of us have different coping mechanisms and have different levels of adapting to reality that's why some people improve as time goes by while some seems to break apart especially when life has not been "kind" to them. Some people are not as receptive or maybe some refuses to accept reality that's why there are manifestations of negative changes in them.
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@figurativeme (1089)
• Philippines
9 Sep 10
Hi! To like yourself is a good thing and I know you're glad about it. No offense meant, but I believe it is also wrong to say "something wrong with the others." We don't really know that nor the reasons and circumstances why people change. We react and respond to circumstances around us and that is how the "others" cope with their lives.
Happy mylotting.
@deebomb (15304)
• United States
31 Aug 10
We all change all the time. It's called growth. We never remain the same. we change because of experiences and getting older. At 66 years old I don't want to be like a teen ager or someone that is forty. Change is a natural process. We change as learn more about life and how to deal with it.