First cut is the deepest.

Philippines
September 1, 2010 12:35am CST
Do you believe in first cut is the deepest? Many people says it does. But will you still accept the person who did cut you the deepest..?
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@abish1987 (188)
• Philippines
1 Sep 10
Ni hao Mackenzie_jad228, I believe in forgiveness so if it would be the first painful cut i believe that it will be surely healed and undoubtedly it wouldn't be the deepest after all. That's my perception and I do believe in the principle of "restoration" through forgiveness.
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• Philippines
12 Sep 10
Moi abish.. Will I do hope that you will always easily forgives like the perception you have in you.. That's a great attitude. Keep it...
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@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
7 Sep 10
I think it is true.., and it will be hard for me to get through with pain caused by someone I really value and loved.. and despite how much I feel for that person.., It wouldn't be easy for me to accept him again..=)
@cream97 (29087)
• United States
6 Sep 10
Hi, Mackenzie_jad228. It surely is the deepest. It may hurt very much if the cut is the deepest. I may not accept the fact of what they have done to me though. I would be very angry and upset. I would be mad but I will eventually forgive them as time goes by.
• Philippines
1 Sep 10
yes it is. it is like receiving your first injection. when you get used to it then the pain is lessen. well, based on my experience first cut is really the deepest. I sears your heart and your brain. you can't sleep and you can't eat well. but when you get used to you feel a single pain and you'll just laugh at it. well, i can forgive the person who cut me deepest if she or he will ask forgiveness from me.
• Portugal
5 Sep 10
cut the deepest you mean like cheat? if i had a bf and he cheated if i would accept him? well i wouldnt bcs if we love someone is hard to forgive something like cheat. i think thats the deepest someone can hurt bcs you are showing love to someone else when it was supposed that you showed it just to only one. the one you are committed too. i know that many people forgive just to be with the person but then you wont trust completely in this person again so how are you supposed to be with this person? unless you forget what happened and start things all over. about me i would always remember it so better find someone else^^
6 Sep 10
yeah!sort of,but all you have to do is accept the pain,move forward and never look back,thats it!
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
1 Sep 10
many people says it is the deepest... it is the most hurtful, perhaps traumatic, and most memorable heartache ever... For me though I have not experienced anything so bad about the first boyfriend I have and it is just that before him, there was this guy that i kind of liked, and i did fell for him... He kind of set the bar for me and ever since I never really poured out my heart to anyone as much... (of course it is different now wiht my current bf)...:D
• Philippines
1 Sep 10
Hi, Mackenzie_jad228! Yeah, I believe that the first cut is the deepest. Because when you love you have to be prepared to get hurt...and the first pain that you had when you love is the deepest because this experience is being new to you. You didn't know and anticipate how much could it hurt 'cause this was the first time that the feeling was introduced to you. And if I will accept the person who cut me the deepest? For me, it depends on the reason behind the break-up. But eventually, why not, forgiveness is very important in moving on with life but not when the pain is still fresh and is still there... Indeed, the first cut is the deepest but it will deliver you to become the better and wiser person that you are! =)