should I go apart with her?

I wanna share this to you before I comment on your discussion. I have a guy friend who is dating this girl for more than 3 years already. The girl is way over her head. She screams so loud to my friend even in front of us. He humiliates him even with people around. She throws things at him. She nags a lot. She has the worst personality if she's steaming mad. But in times that she's not, they're sweet and cuddly together. I asked my friend why he still stays with the girl even though there are countless times that the girl broke up with her for no reason. I also asked him if he considers dating other girls rather than staying with his crazy girlfriend? He answered me with this "We've been dating for 3 years already no matter how crazy she is. I just can't see myself in somebody else's arms." Back to your question. If you really love her that much and that you can't live without her, just stay. But please do tell her to change. It pays to be honest. Also, its unhealthy for you to hide whatever it is that you're feeling now. Just tell her the truth that your starting to question yourself on whether to continue your relationship or not. 3 years is long enough for you to open yourself to each other. Open up to her. Keep reminding her to be calm.etc. It's hard nowadays to find someone who understands, care and love you. Don't just waste the 3 years you spent with her. Just talk to her. It's better that she knows and that it may call for her to change. Best of luck

Stand by her and help her overcome her bad habit. She needs to grow up and show some maturity and you need to show some strength in your spine.

It's really difficult to get out from a relationship when you have given so much emotional investment in it, but if you feel such relationship become a prison cell for you, then the best thing to do is to get out of it.

You would have to decide how important this relationship is. if this person is purposely treating you badly, it may be a sign to give up and move on. Life is too precious and too short to not seek happiness. we are all deserving of it. if this person doesn't realize they are hurting you, you need to let them see how how you feel. Perhaps there is a way for you to help them treat you better. If the relationship is worth it, you have to try.

well im sorry for it :( but if she is that that rude when you guys argue she should had calm down bcs a relationship is respect also. and she isnt respecting you always being like that to you. is true that when people argue they be a bit rude but she has to change or she might lose you. if you are not happy end it. you can find a sweet girl that will love you also about being conservative that doesnt mean you cant be apart from her if she isnt making you happy anymore. life is too short to waste it being unhappy. if she doesnt make you happy talk with her and tell how you feel :)

Why don't you be really open to her? Ask her if she has any problems or any issues with anything. Sometimes I'm like that everytime I'm stressed out about something or if I have a lot of things to think about. If you really love her, and you don't want to lose her, help her change this character.

Hmm, Well what's up with you being conservative and not deciding to be separated from her? I think there are more reasons than her sudden anger outbursts that might have disinterest you now, you are maybe just not ready to accept the fact that your relationship is not as strong as you would want it to be. Just to be on both sides, What exactly are the reasons why she gets angry? are there any quarrels, arguments, misunderstanding between you? I honestly believe that a girl/woman can't always be mad all of a sudden for no reason at all.

Well, nobody is perfect. You should give more time to your girlfriend to gradually change her angry attitude. You can't instantly or automatically change ones attitude specially if she has already grown to it. But you said that she is nice most of the time, so that alone would give you hope of a change. Besides you are not perfect too... Don't forget to always have an open line of communication with your girlfriend.

...this would be the same response i gave to topics like this...if you are happy around her and for you, you still love her then why let go? if you are no longer happy and you only stayed because of the years you've been together or because she is nice to you and that...then that means you don't love her..you stayed beside her because you simply wants to repay what she gave you...if you are bothered with her attitude and if you truly love her, you will talk to her and help her change it for the better or if that can't be changed, then understand her...that is what love means..being a perfect for someone else..instead of looking for someone perfect..

Hello, if you wanna to take apart from her due to her unresonalbe angry. It's unwise. If you really love each other, i believe you can find a perfect way to resolve it. Being a girl, there are some occasions like you and your GF. But sometime i do not tell my boyfriend the reason why i angred with him. Do not tell him does not mean unreasonable. So you should chat with your GF heart to heart. If you really love her, sometimes you should know forgiveness.

Well, if everything is normal after the anger strikes, then you should stay. But if these anger strikes happen constantly and make you even the least bit more distant from her, i suggest you leave and find someone else.

it's up to you. it's not for us to decide which direction your relationship with her goes. you're the only one who knows if you truly wanna break up, or if you wanna keep the relationship and work things out with her. you've been together for three years so you must know her by now. if so, then you know if she, too, wants to stay in the relationship by easing the tension in one of her fits. it's easy to end something. building something up is difficult, but the rewards are beautiful.