Her boyfriend broke up with her because Mother threw him out.
By liweiwei0909
@liweiwei0909 (403)
China
September 1, 2010 7:46am CST
OK here goes! I think most of you must hear the similar stories from someways. But when something should be in story has been brought to the real life, it would be a annoying thing.
Recently, One of my niece that is 15 years old reproduced the story plot, just like the title I described. She have been falling in love with a boy that is 5 years older than her. She said she was so happy until her mother found out. Her mother said the boy couldn't come to see her daughter or call or anything. Because of the strong opposition from her mother, finally, thay were over. But my niece become so unhappy, she told me she still loved him and she was just hurt and confused.
For now, she is really sick, so she is not going anything, just stay at her bebroom all the day. I am so worried about her. But I am holding the same advice with her mother, that man is not a good man, and she is so young. We just be afraid she would get hurt from that man.
Have we done a wrong thing? Is there a better way to let her know that what we have done just because we love her?
I really wish it will be gone soon later, and she still is the girl like before.
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4 responses
@tripkal (7)
• Uganda
2 Sep 10
its not a wrong thing but it wasn't the right thing to do either, you should have given the dude, some time to get to know you guys, but instead you put him to the table and judged him, i don't think that was right, though your trying to protect your sister it might not be the right way,
and hey if i may let you know this might even put her in a much tougher position of trying to get back at you or her mum, by instead falling in love with a much older guy than that one,
judgment isn't a solution, and guys this is the 21st century, style up
@shearry18 (118)
• Davao, Philippines
2 Sep 10
I do understand how her mother reacted on the situation. It is normal for a mother to protect her daughter. She is still young. What 15 years old?I think she needs to have a good conversation with her mom so that she can express what she really feels and on the other hand her mother can explain why she is doing it for her. Open communication is the best key to solve this problem.
@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
1 Sep 10
I am assuming since you live in China, so does this niece and her mother. But here in the USA, that b/f is involved with a minor and it is illegal..I say good for the mother, to step in before something really bad happened.
Your niece will get over it and if they are meant to be together, then they both can wait until she is older and has finished school. Plus every kid feels bad when they are told they can't do something, it is normal. I applaud this mother again, for I'd do the same thing..
Your niece will get over it and if they are meant to be together, then they both can wait until she is older and has finished school. Plus every kid feels bad when they are told they can't do something, it is normal. I applaud this mother again, for I'd do the same thing..