Revenge of the Deepwell

Not either of my mothers in law, but about some other family members. I try to get over malicious feelings, though, as they just become something bad for me to carry on with.

i was also only one month 16yrs, when i married my first husband and his mother really hated me. i had terrible thoughts about her. this woman constantly complained about everything i did and even smacked me a couple times in our own house. but, id been taught not to do anything to my elders, plus, she was the mother of my man i loved. he was very close to her and i still kissed butt. waited on her hand and foot. thats why i cant understand women today not caring to even respect my sons mother... (me). when i finally left him for good, she begged me harder then he did to get back to him. mostly because he soon took up with a girl that whooped her butt the first time she jumped at her.lol. she apologised to me many times. but i wasnt about to go back to that treatment. the family and everyone has learned 1 thing about me. i might be easy a long time, but when im done, im DONE!!

WEll ya cant feel lonesome as my mother in law didnt like me either didnt like my sister in law that married my brother in law we mwrried her boys lolololol SHe hid he money once in her pillow case and told every one that I had stole it. and I was watching tv and hadnt moved told my hubby I hadnt moved from my seat and if it was gone ot look around the pillows for thats whee she went when she came ito the room. yup there was the money then she said I had to be a witch! lolololololol SHe was a very coutrfied womna back in the hils of Tenn.

Ah sweets, I think what you felt at that moment was more relief that this woman was as human and fallible as anyone else. Such a natural feeling considering her feelings for you. I waited a long time to see a 'fault' in my own MIL, as she hated me on site. lol Took a few years, but one finally showed up and all I could do was laugh out loud. Thank God she WAS human, because she ended up laughing with me and though we were never really friends, we got along much better after that.

Mean thoughts, me? Maybe occasionally, but I try not to...

Oh you are naughty! We had gone to Ottawa to visit my Aunt Em. Not a pleasant trip. She had one of those houses where all the living room furniture was covered in plastic. Ok, so now you know where I'm coming from. This woman drove me crazy. I was 16 and it was 1970 of course I was a hippy. Wasn't everybody? The ice rain started just as we arrived and things were getting quite slick. I wasn't in the door two minutes when she asked me to go back out and put salt on the steps. I grumbled but I did it. Later in the evening we were going to visit another Aunt. We all got dressed and left the house with my Aunt Em leading the way which is only fitting seeing how she was the matriarch. She pictured herself closer to the queen mother. Now imagine this, she's dressed in a thick cloth coat with her little hat perched on top of her dyed blue hair. She has these little boots on that are pulled over top her shoes. She's the picture of the perfect lady. She steps off the bottom steps and her feet go out from under her and all we heard was umph as her butt hit the ground. We all stood there in silence but the momentum already had her and she began to spiral down the sidewalk and came to a stop when she collided with the mailbox. My mind I was electrified. I couldn't believe what was happening. When she finally came to a stop her hat was kind of perched on her glasses and I could no longer contain myself. She looked right at me and said , "I thought I asked you to throw salt out here." I replied to her, "You told me to do the stairs, you didn't say anything about the sidewalk."

When I was first married, we rented a house that came with a stove that had a deep well. Never used it, though. (Didn't have a pot to fit in it.)

Yes...some really nasty ones about my ex! LOL...his mother never accepted me either and it hurt. I never did anything right for her. After we were divorced I ran into her one time and she stopped me.....says...you know I always loved you and always will....I thought..what? Could have fooled me!

All the time Jo. All the time. The way they treated me, I couldn't care less about them. Now II didn't wish them any harm but good riddance which is what they deserved. I won't beg for anybody to like me. I am what or who I am so like me or bye bye! LOL I used to be the other way arwound but not anymore. I do my best for anybody and if that isn't good enough then they'll find out where they can stick it! LOL HUGS!!

Well we are but human and we could always be tempted to have mean thoughts to anyone most especially to those who does not treat us well. I also have had some share of mean thoughts when I was younger. And when I looked back at my past, I could only smile and be thankful to God for I am no longer that same naughty girl I used to be.

Hi ANTI! Wow, you were sure young, a baby! How terribly mean for you mil! She sounds like how my paternal grandmother (father- from-hell's mother) felt about my mom! I hated her too because she was mean to my mom and me and my brother! I used to think she was a "witch" because she looked like one and was always cranky, mean and ugly!lol I hated my father and he was just like her! So, yes I hated most of my family, except for a few on my mom's side! I never got married for that reason. My ex-finacee's father didn't like me and I hated him too, so I decided not to marry his moron son after all! We would have definitely ended up divorced so I just skipped a step and I am so glad I did!

I do and it’s in regards to my own parents! To say dysfunctional and abusive barely covers it! My sister and I still have a relationship with them which I question every weekend when I see them! I am ashamed to say that I feel trapped by my parents and their weird ways and I will never be free until they leave this world. I can appreciate your feelings towards your mother in law; we’re only human and there is only so much negativity one can take even for the nicest of people like yourself!

I think we have all had bad thoughts about someone along the way. It can be hard when people don't welcome you and no matter how hard you try..they don't like you.

Hello Antiquelady, I am right with you. I felt the same way with my mother-in-law of my ex-husband. Even after the divorced she thought she boss me around and my children and out spend me for my children. Granted I was not making a lot money and not getting much from ex-husband at the time but she way over spent on my children. I told time and time again not do that because I had to deal with on limited income and girls especailly oldest one only wanted the best. They always well Nanna can get for me. I told my duaghter No! She will not and you will have to wait till I had the cash etc... but clothing oh my they had so much when they are grwoing up. Now when her car breaks down it is me more than Nanna and Nanna now can not send as much money or she does not want too. It weird as my children got be 18 the Nanna will not help as much. Oh well. Thanks and have a great day Sincerley Unique16