Get A Boyfriend
By emelcindy
@emelcindy (60)
September 1, 2010 9:52pm CST
I'm a 30-year-old woman, I never have a boyfriend, because I am always busy with my job or my business. The truth is I am still single, and most of my friends and my parents think I am getting old and I should have a man to build my family. Some people think I may have done something wrong with my standard for looking for a boyfriend. Oh, my god. In fact, I don't know and have no time to look for my MR.RIGHT. That is the truth. I like working, traveling, but I am not romantic girl, also hope own my space.
Sometime I admit I relly want to have my MR. RIGHT. We can help for each other, not just family, we can help or supply suggestion for each other on our job or others. But all males have owned their wifves when I looked around my friends. Only me left.
Dear friend, please write to me if you are looking for a girlfriend, or planed to have. I hope I can find my Mr. Right. Thank you.
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18 responses
@jailo12 (332)
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
they are right ..you should even have a husband at that age ..you should find someone who wants to be with you the rest of his live ..you should make your own family ..you can find the happiness in the family and being a parent too ..hahahah ,i'm available but im too young i guess for you ..i hope you can find your mr. right miss ..^^
@rogue13xmen13 (14403)
• United States
2 Sep 10
I heard this the minute that I turned 18, and I didn't have my first real boyfriend until I was 22 years-old. You don't have to be in any rush, but my advice, just date around. Ask the guy questions, make this he fulfills some of your "realistic" expectations.
@rogue13xmen13 (14403)
• United States
5 Sep 10
Like I said, date around, just get out and meet men. You just have to dress nice, and kind of dress sexy. Let your hair down, walk in heals (or really nice shoes), just be you, and take it from there.
@emelcindy (60)
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5 Sep 10
In fact, more and more people want me to find a husband more than a boyfriend. No right person, no time are the two big problems.
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@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
2 Sep 10
To me it happens when you at least expect it....I would when you are out with friends or what have you introduce yourself to a guy and get to know them if anything they will be a new friend....I have had only one love in my lifetime and we have split up twice and are trying again because we love each other you will find it just will happen when you not looking...
@emelcindy (60)
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9 Sep 10
Thank you. I seldom go out with my friends. All of the communication is finshed by telephone or message or internet. It is a pity thing, I think.
@lhenpaule (495)
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
There's nothing wrong with being single, even remain single for the rest of your life, if it would be your choice and as long as you are happy, but if not and really wishes to have someone special, i guess you must give yourself a break from those that taking your entire time. Think about yourself at this early so as not to regret tomorrow. Anyway, let's pray you soon find mr. right. Goodluck!
@yoganandht (125)
• India
2 Sep 10
Hi emelcindy
I hope you succeed in you mission to find the right sort of boy friend. But probably your Mr Right is looking for the Ms Right. Hope you succeed as Ms Right too
@SimpleBB (1329)
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
Heyy, 30 is not too old nowadays. You may just being pressured by the people around you. Being in 30s is not that bad, besides, that can be considered and ideal age to start to hunt for Mr.Right. The reason is you are matured enough, and probably you did almost everything you want in being single. So atleast when you decide to get into a relationship, there would be nothing more to hinder you in settling down. Maybe you are just a principle oriented lady, who want to be secure first before settling down, and absolutely nothing wrong with that. At your age now, having experience everything being single, can say now that you are very well ready, aren't you? So, good luck in hunting for Mr. Right, and hoping to find it soon. Happy mylotting.
@emelcindy (60)
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5 Sep 10
Yes, you are right. Sometimes I hope the boyfriend is also my husband. Mr right come on, come on my Mr right.
Thank you.
@shibham (16977)
• India
2 Sep 10
at first your country is unspecified. so need to conform it.
again its not the site where someone will offer you a request. i don't hope so. don't mind. it's true.
again. dont think that u have crossed the age to get marry. here in my locality there are some girls who are more older than you and still unmarried. so hope your time starts now.....
all the best for your best future.
@emelcindy (60)
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5 Sep 10
Maybe we are easy to get older in our country. Lots of people think me old. 30-Year-Old means you are old enough. The worst thing is I am still single at this age. I am really busy with my job and business. Maybe they are right, I need a boyfriend.But no time and no right person are the big problems.
@jonnifc (1017)
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
I didn't have my first serious boyfriend until the age of 31. I used to think that I would turn out to be an old maid. So I finally accepted that even if I grow old single, I will still love my life and myself. Then, out of the blue, I met my bf. So, I agree with what they all say in the previous responses. That you don't go looking for Mr. Right. Fate will make a way for you and Mr. Right to meet at the right time, in the right place. Cheer up!
@emelcindy (60)
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5 Sep 10
Thank you. You are right. But more and more pressure makes me lose myself. My boss and my colleague,my friends and my family, I know they love me, they hope I can find a family. But in fact, I cann't find the right man. The people I met in every day are the little boys or computers. Maybe I should find the boyfriend, but more I hope I can find a great friend in life. We can help for each other.
@marianpantewynn (34)
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
don't lose hope..mr. right will come your way in the right time..30 years old is yet old anyway..
@Mintlin (322)
• China
2 Sep 10
Hey,girl.I'm a 26-year-old woman,I'm still single too.I can tell you how strong i long for my mr.right! Look at the people around me,they are all have their own family.
I broken up with my former boy friend one year ago,I thought we supposed to get married.It was a hard time for me,you know that,I cried everyday,my heart broken badly!
But now I feel better,i still have job,i can support myself.Don't look for love because it will find you! Believe me ! Now all we can do is love ourselives more!Smile everyday,you even don't know who will love our smile.
@emelcindy (60)
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5 Sep 10
Thank you, kind girl. Thank you very very much. 26-year-old is a great age. I spent all my time in Singapore on the awful things for my boss. Then I found the good age has gone. I believe you, and I still believe there is some man waiting for my in some place.
@preppydezza (309)
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
don't look or find! MR RIGHT will come in the right place and in the right time (That's why it's called Mr Right). Just enjoy your life now. Have fun with it. Because you will never go back to the past and resent that you never enjoyed your single blessedness. ;)
second point. Don't give up on it! They are just around the corner.
third point. Just be yourself! every thing will come on the right place if you just have to accept the totality of you.
and my final advise. PRAY! its the best thing that you should do. and things will go smoothly.
@TheCatLady (4691)
• Israel
5 Sep 10
Have you considered a matchmaker. Yes there are many out there. They will find you a husband who is compatible with you. You may have to go out with a few men, but you will find one who you want to marry.
@deriellevc73 (982)
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
it has been said that people who look for mr. or ms. right often find themselves unable to find them, while those who stop and just wait for mr. or ms. right at the corner of the road find themselves sitting next to one. i mean, all in due time, your mr. right will come for you. you don't have to go looking for him but i tell you if you are keen to finding someone right, you have to be in the right places at the right time.
i mean if you want someone who is religious and maybe a music lover like yourself, you would not find him in a bar, won't you? so, it means you have to go to places where you can most probably meet a guy who is to your preference.
@holdingfast (117)
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
I have a lot of friends similar with your situation. With or with a mate, life must go on. For me, you are never a less person if you don't have a marriage partner. You can still be happy with your life, as long as you use your life the way it should be. How? By being conscious of your spiritual life, by sharing good to others and by widening friendship to others.
@tiffanyveron (33)
• Canada
3 Sep 10
Don't be disappointed. You are at the prime of your life. Think about the pluses of being single - as you mention, you can travel anywhere and do what you want. I was 33 when i got married and right away have a kid. She's 3 years old now and i still miss my single life. There are other things i want to do but i have limitations. And please, dont be in a hurry. As i said i am 33 when i got married and just like you i feel left out. Just over a year we parted ways. Take your time.
