Do love break when we are far apart?
By vjsham
@vjsham (59)
Malaysia
September 2, 2010 1:10am CST
Hey guys n gals. I have been loving Mr.X for almost 4 years and this is the first time m feeling so far apart from him. He is in a dif state of same country, this never made me to feel such but lately he joined police force and had to go a lil further. Thus, its like we are not messaging or calling often and have very less time to share like b4 as we work on different shift as well. Hmm, i feel our relationship is getting thougher and far apart..That shouldnt be, I m trying to cope with it and go on as i love him truely. Do you think the distance can make love to break apart? In my case, i do feel the gap but I have neva a drop in the love i had for Him... how about u guys/gals out there?
2 responses
@scribbler143 (2)
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
It's hard to maintain a long distance relationship. Im not saying that it will not work out, the thing is you really have to make extra effort to keep the communications open. You both have to agree to do your part to make it last. You can always find time for each other. It's just a matter of knowing your priorities and setting it right. God bless you
@MisterApropos (288)
• United States
2 Sep 10
That's a difficult situation.
Some say the heart grows fonder with distance, and others say out of sight out of mind. I would see how both could win an argument.
I had a similar situation, but my girlfriend was only 15 miles away. However, I didn't have a car so there was no way for me to see her unless I walked and rode my bike, but that would take hours.
I didn't feel that far apart emotionally, but she did and we ended breaking up. So I guess it all matters on the person.
I hope everything works out for you two. Who know if you are meant to be together or not since you are in different states.
If both of you want each other though, then it's meant to be.
I wish you the best. I really do hope you guys can stay close emotionally.
