Am I really in love?
By abish1987
@abish1987 (188)
Philippines
September 2, 2010 2:29am CST
How will I know that I'm feeling the real love? What do you consider as "true love?"
8 responses
@Vincentangelo (50)
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2 Sep 10
love is true, if no matter how busy you are, you can't get rid of your mind the person you love. Love is true if no matter how bad the day, his/her smile make you smile. And you accept everything about her/him. you are 100% inlove
@abish1987 (188)
• Philippines
3 Sep 10
Maybe that's real love because even though he's been very busy from work, he would really take time to give effort in seeing me. How sweet...Thank you...
@Vincentangelo (50)
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4 Sep 10
Actually i believe real love was not meant or destined, i think it is develop and nourished by a good relationship. At first people may say that they are just attracted, then they tend to establish a communication to know the person well. Afterwards they get to know that people. And they will realize that they like tat person. You know it this stage i believe people tend to commit a relationship. At this point people tend to observe.They are observing whether the relationship will work. This is were true love develop.
@Theresaaiza (10487)
• Australia
3 Sep 10
True love is just like how it is described in the Bible. We may not always rate perfect in that checklist though because perfect love comes from God, and is God!
@abish1987 (188)
• Philippines
3 Sep 10
I'm so grateful to receive such message Theresaaiza,I know God loves you so much!!!
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
For me, true love is more than the feeling of wanting to see someone, being with someone... or being on a date with someone... when you say it is true love... then you are past the happy stages... you have gone through some quarrels, and you are most probably in a bad situation with that person... only that this time you are thinking perhaps that you can absolutely endure more pain than you can even imagine... and you can accept the person you are seeing in fornt of you no matter who he is... when you finally accept that.. the love is, i believe true love already.
@abish1987 (188)
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
Endurance is really the key in a successful relationship! I believe on that!!!Thank you for your reply...
@hunterkim_07 (458)
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
Hi. This is the question that I've been asking myself since I met a schoolmate in college. At first I was aware that it was just a mere crush. But later on, even after graduation, I still could not forget him. We're not formally introduced so that means that we don't know each other personally. I don't know, but that was the first time that I felt that way to a guy. I was wondering if it was love. But in my mind I kept on telling myself that I didn't know him personally, so maybe it was just infatuation or something. I asked God for help and guidance, and dismissed the feeling.
If it's love, God will find a way to put you together. There are a lot of emotions clouding us these days, especially young ones. But true love isn't 'made' by man;it's only God who puts two people together for eternity. My advice is tell your story to Him and ask Him for guidance, maybe signs, for you to know for real if what you really feel is love.
God bless you!
@abish1987 (188)
• Philippines
3 Sep 10
So you define it as "God is Love,"wow thank you so much for the enlightenment. Maybe I should really assess my real feelings about this guy. Thank you so much hunterkim_07!
@jonnifc (1017)
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
These are just what I think. You'll know you're in love if you are patient with your partner, when you are normally impatient. Or when you lose your pride when dealing with your partner. You love your partner if you always want what's best for him or her and try your best to always make sure he or she gets it, even if it means you need to sacrifice or putting their needs before your own. It's love when you respect your partner. It's love when you do whatever it takes to make your partner feel that you love him or her. Not just simply saying "I love you". But showing it through your actions as well.
@abish1987 (188)
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
I think I need to be more patient for me to learn how to really love someone because that is really my major problem as of now...I don't know what I really feel for him.Thank you!
@tkonlinevn (6438)
• Vietnam
2 Sep 10
When you feel really peace while you're beside him And You always want to do the good things for him.
@abish1987 (188)
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
Tranquility counts? Yes, I feel peace when I'm with him, so does it mean it is love ?Thank you with the response.
@ada8may21 (2405)
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
If I am in love, I would always wanting to be with the person and always missing him much even if we just see each other a minute ago. Those are the moments that you will feel love. But true love I guess when you give up something that is really important for you just for the sake of that significant other.
@abish1987 (188)
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
You must be a good lover since you're able to define it well. Thank you for the thought!
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
5 Sep 10
true love is when you really love someone so much that cant imagine your life without this person^^ thats a true love. we only have one true love in our life and that is hard to find. bcs sometimes we like someone and that person doesnt like us and other times someone likes us and we dont like them. about me i dont know if found this person or not bcs i always have many love confusions in my life :( anyway i wish i find one that really loves me^^
