When I met the problem,I always choose to escape instead of facing it. Why????

China
September 2, 2010 3:31am CST
I feel myself bad.Acturally I'm happiness now. But I'm always not satisfied with my situation since graduation. I know everyone has his own trouble in their daily life. But when I met the little problems like relationship, setting target,making choices, I always ask for my parents. Before that, I'm acturally not this kind of guy. I don't know where the problem is. Maybe I stay at home for a long time and have already accostumed to rely on them. I want to be independent and don't want myself like this. But don't know how to do that. Does anybody have the same feelings like me? Thank you.
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juggerogre
@juggerogre (1653)
• Philippines
2 Sep 10
I don't know why. Probably its just your personality. I don't see anything wrong about asking your parents if you have any problem. I think that's good. But don't let your parents solve your own problem. Just ask them for their advice and in the end you should be the one solving your own problems. Don't ever escape any problem. Take them head on. This way you will be a stronger person.
indahfth
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
2 Sep 10
Each person must never depend on parents. I also experienced the same thing with you. I always depend on the decisions of parents. Now I'm married, and I must learn to overcome the problem. Little by little I now have my own problems.
Sue21
@lovinangelsinstead21 (36850)
• Pamplona, Spain
2 Sep 10
Hiya miwei, You know even when you get to be independent you will still feel like asking your Mom for advice. I think maybe you are just a bit stressed out. Stress is a part of life and our biggest enemy as it does not let us think clearly. None of us is free from this problem whatever your age you will come up with it time and time again. Don´t bash yourself about just because of that we all have a weak spot somewhere. Like an Pilot of an Passenger Plane is not afraid to fly his own Plane but he is terrible when it comes to being a Passenger himself that sort of thing. Things will sort themselves out at least I hope so too. It feels like we are in some kind of tsunami and we don´t know when all this turmoil is going to end. I just hope it ends soon. Here is to that.