do you show what you feel? / myLot

Philippines

September 2, 2010 8:22am CST

is it easy for you to show your feeling towards the other person? be it anger, love, hate or whatsoever? i'm not good at showing emotions or what i feel. i could be sarcastic at times so, i might say things that's opposite to what i mean. because of this i'm often times misunderstood, like i'm dense or coldhearted,,, how could others be so expressive?

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5 responses

franne32

@franne32 (694)

• Philippines

2 Sep 10

It actually takes time to get used to expressing yourself and there are other ways to do it like in writing. It's not easy for me either but sometimes I just have to say it in order to let that person actually understand me. Just like you, I sometimes end up saying something that the other person will not like, but in the end of my statement I'll say that I'm sorry if it hurt her/him. If you tend to say things opposite to what you mean, then warn the person beforehand so he/she will be able to adjust to how you express yourself but in return you have to adjust to his/hers too.

merraine1428

@merraine1428 (445)

• Philippines

2 Sep 10

so you have difficult time expressing yourself at the start too? the problem with me is im not good at saying sorry either

franne32

@franne32 (694)

• Philippines

2 Sep 10

The good thing is you're already expressing yourself here. As you can see, you communicate with us without realizing that you're opening yourself up slowly. It will not take overnight to change yourself but at least you're trying.

merraine1428

@merraine1428 (445)

• Philippines

3 Sep 10

well, maybe,,, ^^

LIENROSE

@LIENROSE (910)

• Philippines

3 Sep 10

you know what I am emotional within, that is why I am just a writer, up to know I do not understand myself why I am suck like that....

merraine1428

@merraine1428 (445)

• Philippines

4 Sep 10

it doesn't suck at all,,, don't think that way,,, ^^ hehehehe,,, people who put emotions on their writings are great, they make really lovely poems and stories,,, ^^

indahfth

@indahfth (11161)

• Indonesia

2 Sep 10

I am a person who is difficult to express feelings. All are always my own store. Love, anger, hate, sadness is always my cover, and I do not show to anyone. Because I had to hide all, so everybody does not become chaotic and messy. I am a person who destroys or makes a mess if it shows my feelings, my self-conscious So to keep all my feelings.

merraine1428

@merraine1428 (445)

• Philippines

3 Sep 10

and i think those who hide their feelings, when their emotions burst, they can't just hide it and they're more difficult to console (not true to all though),,, ^^

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sender621

@sender621 (14894)

• United States

2 Sep 10

I have never really been the kind of person who can hide their emotions. i can usually express what i am feeling without difficulty. If i am hurt or angry, a little more may be expressed than I care to admit sometimes. There are times i may be unsure of what am i feeling until the words are suddenly there.Sometimes just writing a poem puts my thoughts and feelings in more perspective.