choose between a guy that loves you since forever and a guy that loves you but..

i see what you mean :( yes he hurt me before but even he wasnt completely honest with me he then told me the truth. he said we live far and he is poor couldnt come to my country and met that girl in his country and had feelings for her :( it really hurt me bcs everytime we talked i felt what he said was all true. i chose to be with him but now im so confused. is like since he told me what happened things changed a bit in my heart.

i understand your point ^^ but choose with heart is more complicated :) i even thought about break up and be single and see how things go but didnt want hurt noone or even worse end alone :( i loved this guy much but when he told me that about that girl i started to have doubts if we could be happy or not :( but i dont know if i can judge him much bcs we live in different countries and even he said he loves me and for me to wait him he saw that girl in his country and felt things for her :( maybe distance was the problem also at least he was honest with me and told me what was going on. thats why im so confused :(

thanks for your advises^^ i already solved this^^ i accepted that guy that was infatuated and then said he loves me ^^ but then day i accepted be his gf he was jealous and instead of stay for us to solve things he turnt his back to me so i broke up. since that day my friend, the one that loves me, started to get closer to me but i still loved the other guy and was trying to solve things but we always ended up arguing. so i fell for my friend and he asked me to be his gf and i accepted it^^ im too happy with him now^^ i know he truly loves me^^ about my ex i know he loves me too. even today in his facebook profile i saw a message saying i wanted be with her but someone own's her now. also he said i forgot him too fast other day and that he didnt forget me yet. im sorry for my ex but i couldnt continue with him if we would be always arguing and he would turn his back to me all the time.

well, i believe that if a person truly loves you, he will give you anything that will make you happy. and besides, he has no right to force you to love him, right? the situation is in your hands. :) and the guy you love, i think its enough that he already said he wanted another girl. it meant that you should forget him. a person cant love two people at the same time. that's very confusing on his part :))

aw im now with my friend ahah the one i didnt love but then i started to love him and now we are together ahah^^ about the other guy he said he was only infatuated with that girl and really loved me and we been together before but things didnt work. he was always not trusting my feelings and when we argued he always turnt his back to me. anyway he still loves me. even im with my friend now i know that my ex still loves me. even today in his facebook he had written i wanted be with her but someone own's her now. i know he really loves me but i couldnt be in a relation would him bcs he would never trust me completely and would always turn his back to me. thats why i decided to forget him and love my friend. i fell for my friend and then accepted be his gf^^ now we are together and happy^^

yes ^^ i guess i would learn to love him and i know he worth that i loved him but is just i really loved the other guy but since he told me that about that girl im so confused. is like i trusted completely he loved me and now i see that it wasnt all completely true. and the other friend he really loves me and even i loved other guys and he saw it he always been waiting me to look at him :( i feel so sad that i have to hurt him and say once again i chose someone else :(