When should we get married
By kartiknaiduk
@kartiknaiduk (275)
India
September 2, 2010 12:21pm CST
I don't understand which is the appropriate age to get married. Marrying earlier will put responsibility on our shoulder to look after our family, and if we marry late we are already a responsible person.
6 responses
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
2 Sep 10
if you really love the person you should marry then^^ there is no prob in marry as long as both love each other and not marry bcs some other reasons like money, or to dont feel lonely, or bcs parents want to, or to get some nationality like some people do :) i think people must marry when they are in love^^ marry is be with someone for the rest of our lives but sure if we are not happy we get the divorce im not like those that say you marry it lasts forever if love ends. if there is love they can marry but if not better not to^^
@kartiknaiduk (275)
• India
3 Sep 10
hi there, in our country most of the marriages are arranged marriages and love marriages are very few. You rightly said you said get marry after you fall in love with each other. But here's the case is quite opposite, first marriage takes place then love and it works like any thing. that is the reason why, the percentage of divorces as compared to that western countries is extremely low. and for any individual love may or may not happen. If love happens its OK, and if not, then should the person stay unmarried for the life time. No I don't support this idea.
What do others feel on this.
@prudent (314)
• India
2 Sep 10
I think one should get married when he/she thinks that he/she is prepared enough to take the responsibility of another person in his/her own life whether it is financially or physically or mentally because marriage is not like a project that we take and if we can't continue with it we will just throw it away. It is a life long process that starts from a bonding of two people with lots of blessings, travels a long journey through heart and survives till eternity.
@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
2 Sep 10
I think age doesn't really matter too much of when you get married I think if you are two people in love and are responsible and strong as a couple when you get married is up to you and your spouse....
@mastermindskt (1050)
• Pakistan
2 Sep 10
the good age of marriage is between 22 to 27 and also depends on your job and your position that you can support family or not.
@oi_va_voi (50)
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2 Sep 10
I believe marrying at the age of 30 is good cuz it's the most beautiful time of your life.. you're no longer a child.. you stand on top of the hill between your beautiful n sweet adulthood and the sagacity of being old. Now u can either fly or keep your position.. without any fear, u can set off journeys. Now, that's exactly you are! :))
