...If someone insult your mother...
By Laurenzixi
@Laurenzixi (134)
Finland
September 2, 2010 1:51pm CST
What would you do if someone insult your own mother?
That happened to me yesterday. Her ex boy friend insulted her badly. He said those bad things to her and all. She was crying all day. And im all confused...What should i do? I want to revenge him...
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9 responses
@Laurenzixi (134)
• Finland
2 Sep 10
That what i want to do to him. Punch him in the middle his face...
@dawnald (85146)
• Shingle Springs, California
2 Sep 10
I would want to have revenge too, that's just natural. But what I would do is just not have anything further to do with the person. And I'd let my mom know that I'm there for her if she wants to talk or anything.
@Laurenzixi (134)
• Finland
2 Sep 10
Im trying to support her, but i was thinking...maybe i should say at least something to him. That he shouldn't had to say all those things ...or at least something...
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@crackx (628)
• Belgium
2 Sep 10
I don't know really. Depends on how rude the other person would be and his affaires with my mom. If it would be someone of my family I wouldn't say anything because they don't say things without a reason. If it's with one of her friends, she will definetly say her mind. If it happens with strangers she probably would ignore it.
I would probably only do something if it happened with strangers... I don't know her friends so I can't know how they are and how I would be supposed to act.
In your case I probably would be mad at the ex boy friend, since that is a totally different situation. I'd probably tell the man to excuse himself before entering your house again. I think if you interfere too much you might end up getting blamed... All the best, hope it works out Lauren.
@arrebaldeB (32)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
If someone insult my mother, i would be hurt.I gonna slap that person and pull his/hair.But, sometimes we need just need let go our hurt aches and let the time heals....
@rakadanda (100)
• United States
6 Oct 10
Maybe I would slap her mouth, insulting other people just the same mother she has insulted all women who exist in this world and even her mother has also been felt in contempt by him or maybe he does not have a mother. I really do not like the man who insulted and do not appreciate a woman and that he had insulted a mother.
@skysuccess (8858)
• Singapore
3 Sep 10
Laurenzixi,
Let's not overreact and cause more worries for your mother. A relationship between your mother and the perpetrator had gone bad, so there will definitely be some unsettled scores.
However, what is more important is that your mother is not being stalked, physically beaten or abuse. An occasion meeting and verbal tiffs can be emotionally draining but as long as her well being and life is not being threatened I suppose I will just let it off. I may give him a piece of advice to stay away and my mind for your mother's future.
If the extreme is prevalent, then doing things the legal way would be more paramount i.e. getting a protection order from the courts. I hope that you will never take matters into your own hands as no one is above the law. There will always be consequences and the last thing you would want would be being an extra burden for your mother.
Take care and have a nice day.
@JNAbejero_C (62)
• Philippines
13 Sep 10
How dare that man do to your Mother like that. He has no right to do it to your Mother. Hes just an ex boyfriend.