Have you ever fallen in love with your friend & wat was the response ??
By rautrahul
@rautrahul (267)
India
September 3, 2010 3:00am CST
When you fall in love with your best friend you never know what to expect. It can be start of something beautiful, or the end of friendship if the feelings aren't returned. Deciding wether or not to tell them that you have fallen in love with them will be the hardest decision that you ever make. No matter which choice you make you will wonder if you made the right one until you feel secure in the status in of that relationship. So my friends how many of you have fallen in love with your best friends & wat was the response from the dear ones ?
8 responses
@carolscash (9492)
• United States
6 Sep 10
I have a male friend that I used to date and truly loved. he ended the dating relationship and although it hurt me, I am glad that we have remained close friends. I do still feel love for him but I know that we are just friends. He gets along great with my husband and I too.
@turist1 (175)
• Bulgaria
3 Sep 10
I did fall in love with my friend. That was 5 years ago.
But i didn't tell him. I just couldn't. He was already in love with another girl. I didn't want to break our friendship with a sudden confession of my feeling. I'm actually happy that i didn't tell him. Now he's happily married to that girl and has a beautiful baby daughter. As for me - my feeling turn out to be not as strong as I thought they are.
Some words of advice: before you confess think about this: Is it really love or you just need some to love and he/she is around. Because friendship is important, it's even more important than your feelings.
@gharah (49)
• Philippines
4 Sep 10
i was once in that situation too but i guess i did it the wrong way...i let go of my boyfriend, hurt many people around with the decision and gave it a try with my bestfriend.
But it didn't work the way we expected it to be. I lost the friendship in the end.
And i realized i love my ex more than he is...
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
3 Sep 10
I had a friend who fell in love with me before. it was not a shock for me cause I had so many guy friends but he was the one I least expected who is going to make the relationship stay as friends. Of course I didnt like him cause I can only see him as a friend, he understood that. And I am thankful he did and I am happy to see him with his wife now and he is really happy.
@celsorosas (13)
• United States
5 Sep 10
ive fallen i love with a friend but ive never acted on the feelings because my friendship is more iportant