have you ever tired to make people happy

@AJ9191 (24)
Thailand
September 3, 2010 3:54am CST
i alway try to listen my friends, beside them, but sometimes i feel so sad. they just think about them, they never think about my feel, they just remember me when they need. may be i should not think so?!
3 responses
@beingwell (3625)
• Thailand
3 Sep 10
hey AJ9191! whatever you do, make yourself happy first so you can share your happiness with others. :)
@AJ9191 (24)
• Thailand
4 Sep 10
oh thank you, but may be they don't want listen to me, which contrariwise. or they do not really listen, they just want i jokes, make them happy, fun, listen when they need, they sad.
@Graceekwenx (3160)
• Philippines
3 Sep 10
Have you tried expressing your feelings to them? Coz you see, the usual impression on listeners is that they dont have problems that they cannot handle. Try expressing yourself by being the speaker this time. If these really are your friends, i am sure that they would want to rescue you everytime you fall.
@AJ9191 (24)
• Thailand
4 Sep 10
thank you so much. But i also don't know, because i don't want, normally they don't really care about me, until they know i sad, and then with the words , momentary pity for me, not really in side me, because they are received from me. May be i have created that habit for them, may be i should accept it without demanding anything.
@sinaj292 (602)
• India
3 Sep 10
i think we have to sacrifice myself to make the others happy .... it all the part of that..... i think it is better making the others happy than feeling happy myself...
@AJ9191 (24)
• Thailand
3 Sep 10
are you sure that you give without receiving, and always happy about that? if you make everyone happy, but ultimately you still lonely?