you also feel shy?
By abhishek01
@abhishek01 (33)
India
September 3, 2010 10:52pm CST
Hi friends,
do you also feel shy in shaking hands with girls and talking to them for long time.
I feel shy to even talk to girls,how can i remove the hesitation in talking with girls.
Thanks,
keep on mylotting
5 responses
@dollar3235 (2062)
• India
4 Sep 10
Do not think that it is a problem, generally it happens with most of the guys, who does not have girlish thing to talk. Sometimes, it could be a result of your thoughts, try to control you thoughts about girls.
Best thing would be, to have a few friends who are girl (I do not mean a girl friend). If you have a few such friends, you will understand that you do not have problem in talking to girls but you have a bit hesitation while talking to strange girls, which is a good thing to some extent.
At your age mostly girls are shy and they don't talk to boys so easily that could also be a problem, however, do not even think of these things, consider on your study, in another 4-5 years you will have so many female friends and this thing will be a history.
@abhishek01 (33)
• India
4 Sep 10
thanx for your response i will try to do this.
THANKS
happy mylotting
@zerrywang (17)
• China
4 Sep 10
Just try your best.You have to learn that it is a process of trial and error.The more you try the better (more comfortable) you get at it.The key is just to get them talking,then laughing.Remind yourself that you only live once.
@DharmaKarma (90)
• Mexico
4 Sep 10
Best thing to do would be "Talk to Girls", yep... after sometime you'll feel confident enough to stop shaking and feeling shy, after all there is no reason to be shy or afraid... Whats the worst thing it could happen?
@ANSHULMAHAJAN (703)
• United Arab Emirates
4 Sep 10
There is nothing to be shy the best thing is to talk mrs and more. Spend moretime with them. :)