Men: How do you resist giving in to temptation?
By deve_annrn
@deve_annrn (1856)
Philippines
September 3, 2010 11:20pm CST
Hi.., I am just curious.., I know men are really visually stimulated..,
This is intended for men who are already going steady with their girlfriends.., or are already engaged to be married or already married..,You don't want to hurt someone you love right?
But what if..,on day.., there is this very seductive woman who has her eyes on you and would do her best to get you.., this woman would lure you by wearing really sexy clothing when you're around and would even kiss you and touch you whenever there is a chance.., Would you try to resist her? what if you knew.., that if you give in to her.., you'll get away with it with your girl.. will you really do it? or are you the type of guy.., who is very loyal and faithful to their ladies and will never do anything to hurt them even behind their back.. are these kind of guys still existing? =)
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9 responses
@kennzsniper (170)
• Philippines
4 Sep 10
Visual and sensual stimulation would often lower a man's will power to resist.
Its real easy, If you want to be faithfull and love you partner, there is always a way to resist.
Just say no. Please do not say it in a negative manner as to offend the woman. After all she has feelings to. All she wants to be with you and feel special.
You can make her feel special in other ways. But not so far as to engage in an intimate or fleshly relationship.
You can simply be friends. Make her smile, be her friend instead.
When she realizes that your a good man, she would want one like you too. She would think that if it were to happen to her that it would be excrutiatingly painfull.
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@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
4 Sep 10
wow.., you are a gentleman.. i like the way you think.., I hope my boyfriend is like you too.., well i don't really know how my man would respond to any kind of temptation.., I hope he'll resist too..=)
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That is bad... very bad for a man.... Tempting for men.......
Hell, i am going to land one tight SLAP right across her FACE!! 
Honestly. 
after eating what i gave her, she won't have the guts to slap me back. 
@Professor2010 (20162)
• India
9 Sep 10
Hello deve
Nice discussion my friend, i just say, i am not going to yield at any case..
Thanks for sharing.
Welcome always , cheers.
Professor. .
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
9 Sep 10
hi there professor...,
thanks for dropping by.. and i'l take that as a compliment.., take care and enjoy..=)
@greenteab7 (94)
• China
4 Sep 10
Hi deve_annrn
How are you doing today.
About your question. I think it really depends on situation. No one can say no to that women definitely, but if he is really good guy and accountable guy. Perhaps he can resist give in to temptation.
For me, I dont know, if I married, I hope I can resist it.
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
9 Sep 10
Hi.. goo day to you too..,and happy mylotting..,
Yes.., It will definitely depend on the guy how he can control his self when his body is responding to stimuli.. if you are already committed.. then it should be learned..=)
@Fire10 (293)
• United States
4 Sep 10
I don't think that anybody 'gets away with it.' There's always a price that is paid - I think there is a price paid for even seriously contemplating infidelity. I think for any guy who is going to end up anywhere worth being... he'll have to learn to keep his fido in check. The sooner guys figure it out, the fewer hurdles they'll have later in life.
We all have emotional needs... and anything outside of a faithful and devoted relationship only tricks us into thinking that our needs are being met...
-Married Guy
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
4 Sep 10
thank you Mr. married guy.., it's good for men to keep their fidelity in check especially if they're already married.=)
@earnpilipinas (5)
•
4 Sep 10
^_^ what a question :D
acctually we, boys (im still young :D)
we are easilly tempted, especially by girls
and it's impossible to resist that! especially if the girl is so beuatiful :)
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
4 Sep 10
haha.. the way you answer it,,. i can sense that you are still young and immature and haven't found the girl to commit yourself with.., By that time you found her.., answer this question again.., and i know you will think otherwise.., or maybe find this hard to answer..=)
@yspmyl (3435)
• Malaysia
8 Sep 10
For me, it is definitely no way unless I want to get into trouble. Woman who lure a man with their body will definitely not a good woman. So, if you want trouble, just accept it, if not, just stay away...
@jhyan007 (467)
• Philippines
4 Sep 10
...personally, im not one to talk since i have my share of mistakes and weakness when it comes to situation like this...but if that will happen in the present, of course i will do everything in my power to resist and if possible cut all the communication i have with that girl just for me to get away from temptation...
@celsorosas (13)
• United States
4 Sep 10
you have to be loyal to who ever your with....you have to be all into the relationship so it work and if your being seduced so easily may be the person your wit isn't the ONE
