what do you usually do during you monthsaries?

Philippines
September 4, 2010 8:30am CST
Hello there my fellow mylotters.., I find this day extra special.. today is the 51st Monthsary of me and my boyfriend.., we didn't do anything really special to celebrate.., we just greeted each other this morning and kissed.., and hugged.., He is sick and we cannot go out to have a date., but it's ok with me.., we no longer go out and date with our previous monthsary.., we used to that during the 1st and 2nd year of our relationship.., But now that we've been together for four years we only go out and celebrate on anniversaries..,=) Do you think it's still necessary to celebrate it monthly if you've been together for more than 2 years??
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@ktmatunog (912)
• Philippines
5 Sep 10
We also find a time to go dine outside. It would be nice if it was a new place because we have no one special restaurant. But we only celebrate it annually since monthly will be that expensive to celebrate. That is one reason why married couple don't celebrate it monthly, i think. hehe Well, you can really celebrate monthsaries even when you are just together, even there are no exchange gifts and dining out! =p I think it is okay to missed out monthsaries, but anniversaries and birthdays of your loved ones should never be missed! It is an instinct to really expect something (even a greeting) from your love one at these times.
• Philippines
5 Sep 10
Right! monthsaries can be celebrated without spending at all.. simply being togeteher is more than enough.., but it's different with any other occasions that only happens once a year.. it should be celebrated extra special and sweet..=)
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
5 Sep 10
Hello deve my friend...when I was at your stage I never would waste memorable moments of my love life. That was already gone when I got married because we think of some other priorities. The love is still there but those intimated moments before can't hardly be found in your married life. Well, it depends on the status of your relationship. I mean, if you have a good and stable financial sources I think you can do that still together with your children but for those can't afford I think they would just celebrate some major remarkable moments. In your case, as long as you both are in loved in your relationship, do whatever the best thing you think good to strengthen your relationship. On the other hand this could help you both knowing of your attitudes. What are your good and bad attitudes. Good luck and happy monthsarie! Mobhomeir here..
• Philippines
5 Sep 10
thank you mobhomier.., you are probably right with what you said about intimacy being affected when couples get married.., aside from the fact that there are added responsibilities that we have to handle first.., like children and work.., the finances is also a big factor..=) but as long as we both know that love is still existing.., we can still celebrate and be happy without spending a dime..=) Happy mylotting!!!
• Philippines
5 Sep 10
Well, it really depends on the couple, some of them maybe just need a reason to celebrate and eat out. Hehehe. My boyfriend and I on the other hand, we rarely do anything during our monthsarries, even during the first year of our relationship. I guess, we go out on dates all the time that's why we never really need a reason to celebrate. hehehe. During our anniversaries though, we make sure that we celebrate big, like doing something new, or going to a new place, or staying at a hotel. It's a nice way of capping another year in our relationship.
• Philippines
4 Sep 10
well, in every relationship, there are moments that are very memorable and important for both partners like monthsaries and anniversaries and we always wanted them to be more memorable every time we celebrate them. For us, we really don't make plans ahead or before these special moments but we make sure that we are together during our monthsaries and anniversaries. I guess that's the most important thing. :)
• Philippines
4 Sep 10
exactly.., the mere presence of the beloved person is more than enough already..=)
• Philippines
5 Sep 10
we don't really celebrate monthsaries since i don't even think it's in the dictionary..and it's better to always look forward that we end up together forever, so we celebrate anniversaries since we think we'll be a couple for all times..besides, we can celebrate our love anytime..even all the time...