Which is better? You love that person or that person love you?
By bulastika
@bulastika (5966)
Philippines
September 4, 2010 9:13am CST
Which will you choice? To love a person that has no feeling for you or to love a person that you don't have feeling to but loves you? Sometimes its really hard to find a person right for you. And sometimes its really hard to love a person knowing that even you love that person so much that person has no feeling for you.
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@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
12 Sep 10
So what if you can't find that kind of person? Theirs only a person that's love you and a person that you love. Theirs nothing in between? Who will you choose? Or will you just wait for the person that you love to love you? Or will you wait for yourself to love that person who loves you?
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
6 Sep 10
But what if you really don't have a feeling to that person? eeewwww..lolz.. I don't believe that we can learn to love a person. We can love person is if that person is right for you. But if theirs no common between you and him then its useless. As they say oil and water does not mix.
@ladygator (3465)
• United States
4 Sep 10
I think that this is a great topic! For myself there is nothing worse than someone who doesn't love you back. There is no such empty a heart than looking at that someone, wishing with all your heart for returned affection. Now when you are with someone that loves you so much and you are not sure if you love them back, at least you care enough to notice so maybe eventually you will grow to love them as time goes on. But really the best love is when the two are dedicated, committed and work as a team to live their lives as one force.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
5 Sep 10
Amen.
That is true. The best love is when each love one another. That is true love and ever lasting love. I feel that with this kind of love that is the reason why we live in this world. because without true love theirs no point of living if you ask me.
Or attain the greatest love of all.
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
4 Sep 10
i rather choose someone that loves me bcs i will do my best to love him too. love someone that doesnt love us back will just hurt us bcs that person can be thinking about other one while is with you also maybe can never even love you. so be with someone that feels nothing for us is very bad and i rather be alone. anyway i just wish that when people dont love dont pretend bcs pretend to love is very bad and for sure that person doesnt deserve that bcs loves us with all his heart^^
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
5 Sep 10
You know 90% of women answer the same thing. They rather want a man that's love them. Than having a man that they love. I think its because women can have a peace of mind if the man love them than the man they love. Since most of men have other women if they don't love their partner.
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
4 Sep 10
I always wanted my boyfriend to love me more.., so if i will have to choose between this two.., I will go for the person who loves but i don't feel anything for him juts yet.., for i know this person will take care of me because he loves me right? and when i feel treasured and cared for.., it will be easier for me to fall for them too..=)
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
5 Sep 10
But sometimes is frustrating also don't you think? In your part and his part? Because you can't fake love. You can be comfortable with that person but you can't fake love. That is the problem.
@ysxjjiang (5)
• China
4 Sep 10
If you are a man, you should choose the one who you love, and do everything to make the girl love you. And if you are a girl, you can choose the one who love you.
@bulastika (5966)
• Philippines
5 Sep 10
Is that your case? lolz.
What if that woman love somebody someone also? will she still going to choose a person that loves her?
I think the best in love is two people falling in love.
The worse in love is that when theirs only one person loving.