my relationship
By donnaheff
@donnaheff (158)
Nigeria
September 5, 2010 5:48am CST
There is a girl I used to love while growing up. She was like an integral part of me until we parted ways. We never had any full time relationship. Since parting with her, I have had so many relationships and right now I am in a committed relationship with my current girlfriend and all of a sudden the other girl has shown up. I still love her and also love my current girlfriend. Sometimes I feel like dumping the current one to go for the other while other times I feel like going for the two of them. If you were in my shoes what would you do?
3 responses
@meemingNEW (2226)
• Philippines
5 Sep 10
First and foremost, you can only have one. No matter how you feel about both your past and present, in the end.. there can only be one.
As you have said, you are already in a committed relationship. Just because your past came back like a flash doesn't mean you can easily choose her over anyone else. It doesn't work that way. It's not easy to break someone's heart even. I think that what you are feeling now that your past came back is the feeling of "longing for that person for so long, but the situation is different now that you are in a relationship already." It is like, you had your chance with her but it just didn't work out before.
If I were in your shoes, I would really balance how I feel for both the past and present. I would figure out who I really love the most and if the person is worth it. It seems like you haven't gotten over your ex and its a bit unfair for your present after all you've been through. Just really be honest about yourself. Be honest about how you feel and even though it may hurt someone in the end, what matters most is that you are honest about it and its from your heart. I just hope you choose the best one and I hope you won't regret choosing that person over.
Best of luck
@ktmatunog (912)
• Philippines
6 Sep 10
In loved with an old childhood friend? Some people really spend time searching for their long lost love or even a crush from long ago. And then they see what he/she is like now. But people change. The physical part may not totally change, but also their attitude. Do you really know her that much anymore?
All you can do now is to think hard and weigh your love on both of them.
Love also have a way to find things out. If you aren't meant for each other, then leave it all behind to God.
@priyayogi (222)
• India
5 Sep 10
ya,relationship is very important in our life.everyone should like as friend and relations are getting more advise in our life.so we take it easy and if we able to follow means take it and then do our work also.so every relations in our life is so important.