Homosexual tendencies

i have kids and two of them already showing this kind of attitude. but i do not force them to change. i guess it is still early for them so say that they are. but even if they are, i will let them be as they have their own identities in life.

Your last question is certainly not what I'd expect from someone who claims they're not against homosexuals. Why would that child need to be forgiven? He hadn't done anything wrong. The tendency to homosexuality is inborn and a parent who says they'd forgive their child is being both arrogant and ignorant. Maybe you didn't mean to limit the discussion to just those two choices, though. If it was my child, I'd accept him as he is.

It would be difficult at first, but I would definatley accept my child. It wouldn't even be a matter of forgiving them. I love my children unconditionally and would accept them no matter what.

I have a strong belief that homosexuality is a genetic thing instead of a choice that people make. For that reason, I don't think that it is appropriate to either hurt your child or have to forgive them because it isn't something that they chose. I love my children with all of my heart and I will continue to love my children with all that I have for the rest of my life. If one of the two of them starts to have homosexual tendencies, I don't think that it will change my view of them at all because they are still the children that I love and that I gave birth to.

I suppose it would hurt in the beginning but I have to say that as a loving parent the love I have with my child would never change.

I can hardly accept that if my child is one of homosexuals. and I will feel confusion about it.

Hi Kristeena, I had 4 children. The youngest is 16 and so I can safely say they are grown to the point that I KNOW they are not gay. One of my girls was very tom-boyish and had so so many questions about gay people that I really believed there was a possibility that she was gay. She started asking these questions when she was very young and they continued until she was like 11 years old. She asked if mice were gay and if mosquitoes were gay. We saw a gay couple walking down the street and she had a ton of questions. I can honestly tell you that I would have been ok with it if she were gay and she knew that. The only thing that would have bothered me is how people would have treated her. But honestly, that's a mom thing anyway. If anyone treated her bad for any reason I'd have been all over them. Shockingly to all of us, she hit age 13 and turned the page. We are talking about parents here...I accept my kids for who and what they are. What their sexuality is is nothing to me. If one of them were a murderer or a child molester or rapist...now that is a challenging parent question. My child being gay? there is no thought involved in that one. I'd be ok as long as they were happy.

If that was my child I will still love them, In the end there my child i brought them in this world and the world is filled with mean and judgmental people why join them when you can help the people being bully and abuse because they choose to be different. In the end we all are beautiful in our own way. God Loves us and he will want us to love each other unconditionally.

The only choice is to accept. keeping his/her from their true selves will cause them a lot more confusion to their personality. and hurting him/her would even make it worse, sometimes true strength, bravery and love to the lord has nothing to with their sexuality. it's in the will for us to teach them what is right and wrong. you never know what could benefit "you" for having such a child