What do you prefer time or material things?
By ahann120184
@ahann120184 (103)
Philippines
September 6, 2010 2:38am CST
We all know that giving of "something" to our love one is not a "need" type of thing.. Its just that there are time we love to give them what we think will make them happy.. So which do you prefer your love 1 to give you, their time or material stuff? tell me your opinion...
7 responses
@sweetloveforeve (13120)
• Portugal
30 Sep 10
i prefer time^^ for sure time is much more important than material things^^ when you have a bf you just need to have care and love from him^^ about he gives us a present sure makes us happy too but not as happy as if we receive many hugs and many kisses and many i love you ahah^^ for sure time is a must in relationships^^ i just wish my bf always has time for me^^ about presents i dont need that much that he gives me. if he gives me his time i be too happy already^^ but sure one present sometimes is good bcs makes us feel special^^
@ahann120184 (103)
• Philippines
2 Oct 10
I agree with what you have said. Material things can be acquire anytime we want. Even us can have those stuff. But the time that our loved ones can give us is the most important one. we can never have it over and over again.
Don't worry, once your bf realize that he loves you more than anything else, he'll always be there for you.. I wish you good luck!!!
@theplanner (298)
• Philippines
9 Sep 10
I prefer time because it is more precious than all the material things in the world. You can always find something in exchange for the material thing that was lost but you can never bring back time. At least if you've given time there's no room for regrets after.
@ahann120184 (103)
• Philippines
11 Sep 10
Thank you for your comment.. well i guess your right.. material things can be achieve again but the time, once it was done, you cannot never bring it back again..
God Bless and have a good day!!!!
@Bluerain25 (812)
• Philippines
6 Sep 10
Well i guess i'd prefer both. It's not just time and it's not just material things. You really sound like you are in love... hehehehe! The tomboy is now a lady :D and yet you still wonder why i prefer not to go with you and your man on a dinner date. I wanted you both to have quality time together. Just dont spoil them with material things or give all your time to them. Spare some for yourself. :)
@sweechi (157)
• Philippines
6 Sep 10
Material stuff is so temporary. Yes you are happy if he gives me material stuffs, or things which will make me remind of him. But it is temporary. There is no essense to it. I prefer time. Time to simply get to know the one we love, to know how he's been doing, to enjoy his company. There is essense in it. Through time, anything can happen. It doesnt matter how far you two are, as long as you spend time together even phone calls, chat, hanging out having fun. It really is so special
@ahann120184 (103)
• Philippines
7 Sep 10
HI sweechi... we have the same point of view.. i agree with what you have said. Material stuffs are just temporary.. even you can buy it the only difference is your the one who bought it not your love one.. but time, no money can buy it..
thank you for your comment..
@fherfher (259)
• Philippines
6 Sep 10
Time, i definitely appreciate when my man give me his time. When i was in relationship, i always asking for my bf to give me some time for our relationship. I didn't expect any material stuff from him, because having him beside me makes me feel complete and happy. Material things is just an addition to show that you value him/her.
@ahann120184 (103)
• Philippines
7 Sep 10
Hi fherfher!! will i agree with you.. material stuff for me is just an additional things that your love one can give you.. for me the most important thing is time he spend with you..
thanks for your comment by the way... God Bless!!!
@desertsong (94)
• Philippines
17 Jan 11
Hi! I prefer my husband giving me more time than buying me things. Material things aren't important. Especially when the two of are already very busy with work you'd be dying to have time with him. So, when my husband is busy with work I always plan things for us to spend time together. Everyday should become a blessing that you two are sharing it with each other and having material things should only come in second. Besides material things can be replaced, when its lost you can still get another one, but time lost with someone whom you love is something you can never take back.