Marriage - take 2
By hey_baby
@hey_baby (425)
Philippines
September 6, 2010 3:42am CST
My husband and i was separated for 5 years, now we're trying to get back together.
My 12 yo son and i are currently staying at my mom's place. I want to move out so that i could discipline myself in budget, and to teach my son responsibilities. And also my husband and i could start patching up what remains in our marriage.
But I am hesitant to rent a place for us with my husband. See he's new at his job, i'm thinking to wait for him to get more permanent at his job, which is december this year.
years ago we separated because he can't support us. now i feel that if we rent, there will be bigger financial responsibilities, and i'm afraid that if he doesn't get permanent in his job, same thing will happen.
If we do find an apartment, i wanted to move within the next 2 or 3 weeks.
What do you think?
1 response
@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
6 Sep 10
First of all, I want to congratulate you for getting back together with your husband.
But, you know... when a marriage fails, there must be something happened, and I hope you have thought about that really carefully. And if you think that it happened because of the financial problems, I hope you have solved it before you get back together with your husband.
I think it is not good for your son if you and your husband have to go through an on and off marriage which would make him confused. Maybe you have to wait a little longer if you want to live in the same house with your husband since you're not financially ready.
But if that's your decision, then you might have to work it harder to make it right.
