If you love someone..

@sinaj292 (602)
India
September 6, 2010 3:53am CST
If you love someone because you think that he/she is really gorgeous then its not love its infatuation...... If you love someone because you think that you should not leave him because others think that you should not ,them its not love its compromise... If you love some one because you think that you can't live with his/her touch then its not love ,its lust..... If you love some one because you have been kissed by him/her ,then its not love its inferiority complex............ If you love someone because you can't leave him/her thinking that it would hurt his/her feelings ,then its not love its charity......... If you love someone because you share everything with him/her ,then its not love its friendship.. But you feel the pain of the other person more than him/ her even when he is stable and you cry for him... .. thats love....... If you get atracted to other people but stay with him/her with out any regrets that is love................... If you let him go knowing that he has to go but he does not want to ......... thats love........ What you think am i right...................
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7 responses
• Philippines
6 Sep 10
This pretty much sums up what love is.
• Canada
6 Sep 10
I would agree that is what love is....
@bingskee (5234)
• Philippines
10 Sep 10
i think you are right. love is a deeper feeling. it is not superficial.
@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
6 Sep 10
My question to you is this then I did love my ex to let him go at the time I was angry but deep down I let him go with love...What if he comes back then is that love? He does all the things you listed as love he puts me before him now but he was in a selfish stage before....When he is depressed over situations in his life I wanna be there for him and I cry....We are long distance from one another at the moment...
@dawnald (85139)
• Shingle Springs, California
9 Sep 10
I think a lot of that is very true...
@misheli (551)
• Philippines
6 Sep 10
I like this! Two thumbs up for you. You are definitely right about the definition of true love.
• Portugal
6 Sep 10
i agree with what you say less the inferiority complex about being kissed by him. you mean that you dont leave the person bcs you think noone else will kiss you? if that is the case, if you mean this, then i agree with you. anyway you are right sometimes people be with someone bcs is afraid to hurt or bcs others dont want that you do that. also let go of someone even if person doesnt want to well i wouldnt do that. bcs if he loves me i cant let him go^^ he must be with me^^ so that i wont do even i love him so much i cant let him go bcs i cant take it to lose the one i love^^
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
6 Sep 10
You are definitely right.., That's the real meaning of love.., being more selfless and concern with that person's happiness rather than your own.., If you don't only look at the physical attributes.., then it's more than an infatuation.., it could be love..,