Do you hate people who are judgemental? How do you deal with them?

@DenverLC (1143)
Philippines
September 6, 2010 8:58am CST
People often misunderstood our behaviors. When you speak frankly they call you as arrogant or boastful, when you just keep your silence to avoid trouble they will still call you names like weird and stupid. Sometimes it is better for people to hate me for what really I am than loving me for not who I am.
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7 responses
@med889 (5941)
7 Sep 10
I do not hate them but I hate the opinions they form when they hardly know something about the other person, this is wrong to judge someone especially when it comes to people who are the least wrong doer in life.
@DenverLC (1143)
• Philippines
15 Sep 10
I can't really comprehend with your point of views, but I certainly believe that judging someone is a sign of weakness.
@p3ks626 (6538)
• Philippines
6 Sep 10
I sometimes dont care about these people. I dont care about what they say and I dont care especially if they are thinking badly about me. I just let them think what they want to think. Its their problem, not mine.
@DenverLC (1143)
• Philippines
15 Sep 10
Hmmm, You have a long patience and right attitude..
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
6 Sep 10
I just don't like people who are so quick to talk, so slow in thinking and so hard in their hearts. I am not comfortable being around these kind of people - if i can't control my emotions.. definitely i would be telling them how i feel about their opinions and that sure would make them feel too that they have "judged" or said enough.
@DenverLC (1143)
• Philippines
15 Sep 10
You are right with those views..Thanks
@dodo19 (47315)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
10 Dec 11
Probably like others, I do try to avoid people who are judgmental. It's not something that I really like. I don't think that it's right to judge people. I don't understand why do it.
@indahfth (11161)
• Indonesia
6 Sep 10
Misunderstandings frequently occur. We can only stretch what a misunderstanding. so that misunderstandings do not become something big.
@DenverLC (1143)
• Philippines
15 Sep 10
What do you mean when you say "Stretch" I just can't get the thought or maybe the usage is not proper?
• Netherlands
6 Sep 10
i try to avoid judgemental people and most likely i will try to agree in such a manner that it will annoy those people. Sometimes they just want you to react angered so either avoid them or agree with them that can also be lying that you think the same way just to avoid more hateful judging
@DenverLC (1143)
• Philippines
15 Sep 10
Avoidance is really better than be ruined with their nonsense behavior.
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
30 Nov 11
Personally people who are always like this with everyone, I feel are uncomfortable in their own skin. They usually are judging you often on things that they themselves are having issues in. Especially people who are always finding fault with someone due to you both are Christian but some are doing things the other does not agree with. But it is not the time or place to judge then either.