OH MY CRUSH.....why cant you just do what you have to do=!!!!!
By angelzfangz
@angelzfangz (244)
Philippines
September 6, 2010 11:10am CST
i am a female and i am from phihlippines it is customary for us filipinas to wait for a guy to make the first move like we cant ask a guy out because it is inappropriate we can not easily express how we feel to u guy without embarrassing ourselves=( i have a crush and i feel that he also have a feeling for me but i think he cant make a move because he is toooo overly shy what wil i do???? should i go first or should i wait for the impossible?????=(
3 responses
@Absinto (2385)
• Portugal
6 Sep 10
You shouldnt fell shame for taking the first step. It could be custamary there to wait for the guy, but we need to live up to our century. Everything has changed. I think you should be the one to make the first move and see how it goes. If he is too shy then he womt do it for sure. If you think that expressing how you feel is embarrasing then how are you ever going to find a partner?
Try going for the first move. Something will happen, even if he rejects you at least you know you tried.
@angelzfangz (244)
• Philippines
7 Sep 10
what if he does not like me after all ... af if he really likes me then he will do something ryt???so i just wait for to take the first move i am not thet good on rejection i am not ready to take a blow yet maybe someday=(
@Marhler (26)
•
7 Sep 10
Better try and get rejected than to never try at all. At least you don't grow old thinking 'what-if'.
Besides, it is not wrong to take the first step. Who knows, that guy might also be waiting for a sign from you!
Don't wait for impossible. Do it now before it's too late.
@angelzfangz (244)
• Philippines
7 Sep 10
i really really hope it is that easy to go to him and express how i feel...my be in time i can do that now im still saving up all my strength to be able to tell my feelings to him i really really hope everything will turn out fine=(
@sakurakoji (10)
• Australia
6 Sep 10
why wasting your time waiting for him to make move? if you like him, just say so.
i do not think that it is inappropriate for woman to make move first. if both of you stay quiet, then no relationship can start.
@angelzfangz (244)
• Philippines
6 Sep 10
i hope i can do that=( im too afraid to do that too hehehe.... and if he really like me then he will make a way to conquer his shyness....=) im waiting for him to say something because it makes me feel spexial=)
