girls and boys read this please^^ important message to all :)

Portugal
September 6, 2010 3:02pm CST
hi girls^^ isnt it the cutest thing when a guy asks us not to leave them? if we love them and we argue and say im going to leave and they say dont leave me please and just come hug us? isnt it cutest thing? ahah we girls love it at least i would love a guy do this for me^^ but why you guys are so afraid to ask a girl to dont leave you? what is the big deal? we like it bcs we feel you guys care for us so why sometimes you dont do that? why sometimes guys dont say how they feel bcs they feel they are humiliating themselves? this is not humiliation^^ is just show care for us and we appreciate it^^ so guys start to show more your emotions to us girls and dont act so careless^^ and we girls will be happy right girls?^^
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@slothgurl (569)
• Enumclaw, Washington
6 Sep 10
No, not right for me. I say knock off all the BS and just enjoy each others company. I don't need anyone to beg for my attention, nor would I want some groveling pile of goo whinning around.
• Canada
6 Sep 10
I don't think that was the meaning of this post at all slothgurl what I get from it as that you are experiencing an argument with your spouse and you want to leave if even for a few hours....I think it means alot when a man can admit that he doesn't want that and you begin to communicate to work through your problems...
• Portugal
6 Sep 10
yes blue^^ thats exactly what i meant^^ thanks for defend my discussion sweety^^
• United Arab Emirates
7 Sep 10
Let me tell you about my incident in office...I have been a loyal husband going home after work, no friends, no partys, no picnics. All my collegues used to not like this, they used to ask my why you dont join us for picnics and parties. I said my wife does not like it. One of the girls commented...why do you listen to your wife so much, you are a man and you need to live a manly life and in return i asked her. Wouldnt you like if your husband loved you so much and they were all quiet.
• Portugal
7 Sep 10
aww thats so cute edward^^ you really love your wife so muchy^^ i didnt like the way they talked saying you need to live a manly life. sure you need to do sometimes things for your wife but there is one thing edward^^ is ok if you go out with your friends sometimes without your wife. like one time per week^^ bcs is ok to have friends too and go out with them :) you also need spend time with friends and not only with your wife^^ anyway i am happy to see you really care much for your wife but if she really cares muchy for you too she wont mind that sometimes you go out with your friends too^^ love is care but is also trust^^ so you can go out sometimes with friends without her. as long as she trust you^^
@gunagohan (3414)
• India
7 Sep 10
Why in the first sense , girls wanna leave boys? It isn't appropriate for a girl to leave a boy who is in true love.. Boys doesn't like to say don't leave me, if the girl is prepared to leave, because she doesn't want the boy to be with her.. There are multiple ways to show and take care of the girl..
• Portugal
7 Sep 10
if they argue all the time and the guy acts careless to them and they decide to leave them. thats what i mean. if the guy really loves the girl he can ask her not to leave. sometimes we girls say we will leave to see if the boy will do something to stop us. thats why i said guys should show they care more than what they usually show :) yes there are many ways to show but i meant that this one is a way that make us be sure we are important to them bcs they dont want to lose us^^
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• Singapore
7 Sep 10
Haha, I'm not in a relationship right now but I agree that both boys and girls should do their part.
• Portugal
7 Sep 10
yes you are right^^ both must care and love each other^^ but it seems that girls are always the ones that care more or show they care more than boys and thats not a good thing. at least me anytime a guy says he loves me i end being the one who cares more. i just wanted a guy cared for me so much and showed it^^ not just say and then do nothing. thats what i mean like guys always say if i cry im weak or if i ask her to dont leave me im being humiliated. thats not true at all. we need that to see that they really do love us. is not that we want them being humiliated just we need to be sure that what they feel for us is true^^
@shibham (16977)
• India
7 Sep 10
are you sure that all girls love this type of speech? u know sweet. love is not a clap of single hand, both should be supportive to each other... otherwise one side effort does not work in love. don't think that boys are careless, at least i am not but she was not able to enter in my heart. whose fault? mine? so, as love is an immortal relation.... so both has respective values. take care from a careless guy...
• Portugal
7 Sep 10
oh shibham sorry i didnt mean all guys are careless just the most part. i didnt mean you were careless with that girl. is just when guys say i love you to a girl they should care always and say sweet things but no sometimes in little arguements they just turn their backs and dont listen. i meant that is like we girls show our feelings more than guys thats what i mean and is ok if a guy cries and asks us to dont leave them^^ for me is the cutest thing a guy can do for a girl^^
@deve_annrn (1856)
• Philippines
7 Sep 10
You are absolutely right!!! we, girls loved to know and be told that our men doesn't want to lose us.., that we are important them.., it's not a humiliating thing to tell us not leave them.., I think it's their ego or pride that stops them from doing so..=)
• Portugal
7 Sep 10
yes you are right is their stupid egooo :( why guys are so pride? why is it so hard for them to say that? like when i liked this guy and i didnt want do something he asked bcs needed talk with someone first he just said im ashamed of him :( i was like no im not ashamed of you is not that but guys always just want think what they want and dont listen. finally he listened to me today but we ended sad with each other again :(
@BlueAngelRS (2899)
• Canada
6 Sep 10
I don't necessary think that I would just be happy because of that....But if my spouse and I were in an argument knowing he would be as equally crushed as me if we split up would mean everything to me....I am currently trying to work things out with my ex husband we are getting back together even tho we live far from each other I think that has been a good thing as we have had alot more chances to communicate...But we also do this when together....He has told me something that he never said before....When things go wrong in his life and we had a tramatic thing happen to us that he was completly messed up in the head but his heart was all over the place for me....He is admitting things to me...I've not had a problem expressing my feelings and emotions with him he hasn't been as open I know him better then anyone yes but it doesn't come easy to him....I expressed that I don't know if my heart can take loosing you again it was too much....He actually admitted he feels the same way....It floored me but was nice to hear....
• Portugal
6 Sep 10
sure blue bcs we all girls like to know that we are important to guy we love isnt it?^^ i really like when a guy i care about says to me please dont go^^ this just make me feel too happy bcs means he really loves me^^ i know i sound too drama person but is so cute when a guy just shows his emotions too^^ when he says please dont go is showing us that we mean much to them and for a guy to admit that is a big thing^^ so means we really are important^^
@cream97 (29086)
• United States
6 Sep 10
Hi, sweetloveforeve. It will make me feel a little disgusted and appreciated at the same time. Three years ago, I threatened to leave my husband. He got on his knees and begged for me not to leave him. I have never seen a mad do this for me. It made me feel very bad. I had to re think about our marriage vows.
• Portugal
7 Sep 10
yes is not we feel great but we feel happy at same time bcs person asked us to be with them like we are most important person in their lives^^ i just feel so so happy if a guy asked me please dont leave me never and hug me and kiss me much^^ i just feel the need to know that he cares much for me and that im his everything^^ anyway you are ok now with your hubby right?^^ is he much sweet to you?^^